Sorry for posting this again. But it got closed before I get any more answers. I had some relationship but they don't seem to last that long. What am I doing wrong. And to it hard for me to get a guy too. I am shy and scared to even ask a guy that I like out. I can talk to guys that are just friends if they start talking to me first. I have been talking to few guys on here. I did meet one guy not any of the others. Sometime when they say something about meet I have a reason not to go just yet. But I haven't talk to some of the other guys that long either. I am not to sure on what to do.
2006-07-20 19:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's kind of the same with me and I'm a guy. Not sure why it is.
I mean I know I'm not hideous or anything. And I know I'm not gay.
Whenever I have gone out looking, I do end up finding someone, who's interested in me.
We end up talking, and it seems she and I are having a good time, but really I'm just getting so nervous, feeling awkward, trapped, wanting to just get away. I've learned to hide it well.
It's just that I hate having to put my best foot forward, sort to speak. And pretty soon, I go all quiet and she thinks I'm not interested in her.
Sometimes, she doesn't lose interest, and flat out asks for my number or e-mail. And because I'm feeling all awkward, I just give it to her. Then she starts calling or writing and it gets even worse and I feel even more awkward having to answer her politely, waiting patiently for her to lose interest.
Maybe it's just that deep down I know she isn't the right person for me, and I feel guilty because I know that if we start anything I will have to leave her in the future.
I don't know. I just wish I could find someone I could feel comfortable with right away when first meeting them.
I guess it'll never happen, though.
2006-07-20 20:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by deregulution 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard for shy poeple to make the first move but sometime its the only way to make something happen guys are not like us girls they cant read minds so we have to tell them wot to think and do so be brave and make the first move dont be afraid of rejection because if u dont ask you dont get as my mum uses to say
2006-07-21 03:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-"I am shy and scared to even ask a guy that I like out."
Maybe this is the reason. Guys like girls who are confident and strong.
2006-07-21 02:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by celiz e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
The more people you meet and interact with the better you'll be at finding the guys you want.
2006-07-21 02:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋