Is it still possible to find a faithful man and have a long lasting marriage nowadays??
I'm 29 ,single, never had kids. Is it still possible for women like me to find a good man? It seems wherever we look we see nothing but bad news.
At times it seems that the only way for me to find a good man is to pray for one. Its like we need a freaking miracle in order to meet and marry one. Especially to find a faithful one.
2006-07-20 19:40:06 · 12 answers · asked by liipl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't force it. You are still relatively young. And to answer you question, yes there are good loyal men there. So don't despair. When you least expect it, thats when he'll find you.
2006-07-20 19:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I know you can find one. I don't have any advice.. but I was at a frustration level that you are at... my husband came from another country where family values and mutual respect are still very much present... however, if you marry outside your culture.. you may not have to worry about them being faithful, but there are other cultural issues that come up. Just give up any thought of material or physical standards... and see the guy for who he is.... you will find someone very special. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-21 02:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible and not entirely rare.
Get into faith based activities and religious social events. It is harder to cheat on a woman if you truly believe that a deity is watching. Outside of that, just be more social and network, almost like you are job hunting. You never know, your nephew’s little league coach’s roommate’s girlfriend’s brother just might be the guy for you!
2006-07-21 02:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Precisely. It is God who joins married couples into a one-flesh relationship - one so close that nothing and no one can be allowed to interfere with it (not even Mom and Dad). Which is why we are supposed to consciously make our beloved our highest priority and make a permanent commitment before getting involved sexually.
Bottom line: Prayer is definitely THE thing to do. That and trusting that God's answer (whatever it might be - perhaps even 'no one') is really the best.
2006-07-21 02:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I will be married 32 years this August. I have been and so has she been faithfull all those years.
Love, respect, trust, and working together when things are hard have help the both of us.
Also our faith in Jesus Christ has been very important in our marriage.
2006-07-21 02:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by fatboysdaddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I did meet this one guy who im like 600% would be faithful and a sweet hubbie to the girl he marries, unfortunately everytime he asked me out I said no lol, then when he was over me, I started liking him:/
2006-07-21 02:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by angelbabe3009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. there are plenty of good men out there, you need to pursue your interests and eventually you will meet a like minded male doing the same things that you are interested in. As to faithfullness....well, feed him, have sex at least daily and NEVER correct him in front of his peers!!
2006-07-21 02:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a good question coz I wanted to know too!It's so hard to find faithful guys nowadays.Think they all extinct!
2006-07-21 02:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop looking for love, love will come to you when you at least expect it and be patient and you will find a faithful man and your marriage will last long................
2006-07-21 02:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definitely is. The problem is they usually aren't princes on horses or knights in shiny armor, i guess in order to find them you have to learn to look beyond the surface.Not too many ladies want to do that . . .i guess
2006-07-21 02:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by desroe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋