Any thoughts? What do you think?
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2006-07-20 19:31:55 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we like guys to be more decisive but that's not bossy or controlling. Have to set a limit to it that is acceptable. Coz if the guy doesn't control at all, we might feel the guy doesn't pay attention to us anymore.But if over-control, we cannot 'breathe' in the relationship and may cause stress to it. So to answer your question, yes to a certain limit but not over-doing it. =>
2006-07-20 19:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. I am 42 years old, have been there and done at least a bit of that. I have found that:
I really like a relationship where both parties ask for permission before touching each other in any way more intimate than shaking hands.
I really like being able to solve problems together in an atmosphere free of force.
I really like a situation where no one has to give up their dreams just to be with the other.
I really like a relationship where both parties look up to each other, and most importantly, to God.
I view controlling relationships as idolatry - the worst possible sin - and want to, on the contrary, respect God's place in my beloved's life, and feel he does the same for me.
2006-07-21 02:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't like bossy but like some controlling. Especially in bed.I like a man to take charge and do what needs to be done. No drama and no maybes.Sounds kind of bad I guess but it has never gotten out of hand. Why this is I have no idea.
2006-07-21 02:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many, but there are those that like it. Most girls I know though are smart enough to let the men think he's in control, nut actually be the one pulling the puppet stings if ya know what I mean.
2006-07-21 02:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by pixi_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all human beings have feelings. anything that is too much is not good. everything should be balanced. life is a give and take situation, most especially, if she is your girlfriend. in any relationship, respect and trust for each other should go hand in hand. if one of this gone, even with love around, i suggest, it's time for you to part ways because that will be hell for you.
2006-07-21 02:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by marissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that way. I'm a live-and-let-live kind of guy, and the chicks seem to HATE that!
2006-07-21 02:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by net_at_nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If we wanted that, we would still live with our mothers.
2006-07-21 02:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life!!
no one does like that!!!
2006-07-21 02:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by madpianist_hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, we like me who let us do what we want and don't tell us what we can do.
2006-07-21 02:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask?
2006-07-21 02:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋