where do u get da courage 2 break up or hurt a girl?why do u do it? what pleasure do u get out of makin us cry?
2006-07-20 19:06:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i can't speak for everyone, but you don't get the courage...i hate it...but sometimes it has to be done, if the two of you wouldn't work, or if you know its for the girls best interest....then you can do it....but it brings me no pleasure....
2006-07-20 19:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Georgejetsam4500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Although I've never been in a relationship,) It depends on the guy. If he's a nice guy, maybe there are some other circumstances which call for the ending of your relationship. Maybe he found another girl, or he's moving, or he just doesn't like you/doesn't have any feelings for you, or he's gay. Theses guys barely have any courage to do it, and will probably be very nervous before/during telling you.
Bad guys, however, have the courage to tell you because they don't care about you; and they are only breaking up with you because you aren't "hot" enough for them, or because they are "done" with you and are ready for their next girl. If you run into one of them, watch out; and don't even cry over them when they dump you.
Hopefully, you'll find a good guy who won't ever break up with you, and who will stay with you as long as you want him to.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 13:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me, but that takes a lot in itself to say that. Can i be honest with you? Not every guy is a jerk/prick/whatever you want to call him. Talking about break-ups, there are a lot of decent guys out there who find it absolutely heartwrenching to tell a girl that they can't be together anymore. There is no pleasure in it. The courage comes from knowing that the right thing will be done and in time that girlfriend will see it as for the better rather than something that the guy did just to spite her. We break up because we don't see the relationship going anywhere and we don't want the girl to get hurt any worse by prolonging the relationship. As for generally just hurting a girl's feelings... again, not all of us are jerks/pricks/whatever you want to call us. I know any time I've hurt a girl it's been by complete accident and I've appologized numberous times for it. The most I can come up with is that for those guys who are jerks, they do it because they can, and they get a bit of a power trip from it. Personally i find it sick. That's coming from a guy.
2006-07-20 19:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don.t want to hurt you as mush as you don't want to be hurt. Relationships end and some people just aren't good together. There are so many different reasons guys break up with a girl. Most young guys just aren't ready for a serious relationship. Would you rather him lead you on and stay in a relationship if he didn't want to be with you? You deserve a guy would truly likes you and wants to be with you, and you will meet hin someday, until then you might go through a lot if hurtful breakups, its just part of life, and someday you may be in the position to have to break up with a guy,and then you'll know how hard it is. No body likes breaking up, and it could hurt him as much as it hurts you to do it.
2006-07-20 19:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i dont think guys get pleasure from braking up with girls, because that just seems pretty f*c*e* up. Sometimes it just has to be done because the relationship isnt working or has taken a wrong turn some where. Like my last relationship i had to brake up with my gf because she tried to cheat on me. That is why you sit down and have a complete rational conversation about everything and let her go easy that way you both can understand where you are coming from.
2006-07-20 19:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by brm272 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pleasure, no courage
we just don't care
we have other interests ( a gilr ) or are just tired of the nagging
bitching, yapping and the crap that comes from a immature girl with baggage, it's rally not that hard to have a relationship with a guy, but women screw it up all the time by making life to demanding, so a guy dumps you and looks for a lower maintenace girl
2006-07-20 19:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys come and guys go honey. You will be surprised how many of them you will see again later in life as long as you have a good attitude and treat everyone right even when you are being done wrong. Eventually they will grow up and be ready for a relationship. In the meantime have fun.
2006-07-20 19:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same place where you girls get the courage 2 break up or hurt a guy.
2006-07-20 19:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts. Break ups hurt. People who are mean about it are jerks, but life goes on and eventually youll probably take your turn hurting someone else...when you get over them.
As far as the pleasure goes, it makes people feel important, loved and special when someone cares about them so much that they cry over them.
2006-07-20 19:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we could always just stay in the relationship, get more and more frustrated with it, and decide to cheat on you or beat you as an outlet. Sound good?
And for all you girls who are going to complain about guys and say you hate us for doing that all the time, why continue to date us? If you really hated it that much, you'd just stay away. Is it just that you like to have something to complain about? Maybe that's part of the reason your last boyfriend found the need to rid himself of you.
Thank you for another stupid question
2006-07-20 19:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋