i have been dating my bf for ten months and i love him but that spark doesn't seem to be there anymore.
i have been talking to this guy online for two months and there is real chemestry between us and i really like him and he like me but he lives onthe otherside of the country. we are really honest and like best friends and each others confidant we know each other really well i jsut don't know what to do here. what should i do and what should i say to them both
2006-07-20 18:59:21 · 3 answers · asked by gwyenevereaurorathesorceress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the chats do include voice and i knew him wheni lived in va before we moved to seperate states but that was like 5 years ago.
2006-07-20 19:09:50 · update #1
do what you do...if there's no spark and your young enuff to not care and to not settle...move on...
2006-07-20 19:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had that chemistry with your boyfriend before. Of course the spark with the new guy is going to seem amazing. There's novelty to this relationship so it's naturally going to be more interesting. But think about it, you've talk to him online for two months. Does this even include voice communication? People are great at putting up a different front online than they would in real life, so don't feel like you can complete trust what you 'know' about him.
Sparks are ephemeral. They always fade. If you're left with something more lasting, think twice before giving it up.
2006-07-20 19:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a friend can ruin the friendship... just so you know. Other than that, my advice is follow your heart, even if you don't go for your online friend, you may want to dump him and find someone else. That is your call thouhg.
2006-07-20 19:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋