Ok so here's the deal I sort of like two guys. Guy #1 I’ve known since 8th grade, we went out and I felt HORRIBLE for SO long after I broke up with him, we are still pretty good friends and talk almost every day(online). Guy #2 I just met this past school year and have been talking to him a lot this summer but I don't think a relationship more than friends would work for us. The thing is if I had to choose one of them to be with I know I’d go with #1 but I don't know if he still likes me/ would consider going back out with me and I’m to chicken to ask. I've also recently learned that #2 likes me . . . I don't know what to do.
2006-07-20 18:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by redwlf563 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't settle for anything less. If Guy # 1 likes you, he's the one for you right now. If not, find another prospect but definitely not the Guy # 2 since you don't think it will work out, and don't settle for this guy. You deserve something better.
Be patient with guy # 1 and confirmed if he likes you or not. Move on from there.
2006-07-20 19:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Spurs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step back and take a better look, you don't have to choose either one just for the sake of choosing. Be friends with both of them, enjoy both of their company. In time you will understand your heart and it will be clear, I mean if you are having trouble choosing then you must not be truly in love with either one.. It's not a right or wrong decision. Who knows God may have someone completely different in mind for you!!!!!! Don't rush into anything, you have many many choices that will come later in life.. What ever you do, don't ask either one. You should appear confident and strong to all men, they should be the one to let you know!!! Don't appear to be ditsy and confused, even if you are inside, just act like you are on top of everything. Good Luck
2006-07-21 01:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first off, be true to yourself. if you want guy 1, you have to see what can go on with him before guy 2.... but, youll just have to get the guts to flat out ask him if he would want to get back into a relationship with you. but, if he says no, you cant blame him... cause, you had already been a go already, ya know... then, if that falls through, you might wanna give it some time, but you might try to get with guy 2 then, but only if you like him too... if you dont think anything could happen, then just tell him that, and live your life on.... ultimately, you must be true to yourself no matter what.
2006-07-21 02:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by mdrieber00013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't see yourself dating guy #2 don't waste your time or his by dating him. If you really like guy #1 you have nothing to lose by asking him how he feels about you. Chances are he still has feelings for you if he's still talking to you. You're not living life if you don't take chances so just talk to him. Just think you could be wasting time worrying about what he'll say, when you could be enjoying time with him!!!
2006-07-21 02:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by andrea b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to settle for one. Date both until you figure out what you really want. That's the whole reason for dating... to weed out the ones who won't work. You can't date if you keep staying with one person at a time. Relax, and enjoy.
2006-07-21 01:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GO OUT WITH NE1 U DONT LIKE/LOVE! its a total waste of ur time. dont go out with some1 just 2 have a boy/grl friend. guy #2 may like u but the question is do u like him more than friends? my strategies are to think of who u like, do i like him more than him, do i have a chance of a relationship with either 1? do i want a long or short term relationship and who can i have that with. does he treat me like a lady or 1 of his trash mops? its not my decision to decide, its YOURS, but i can try to help!
2006-07-21 02:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by roxy angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I you like guy #1 than just ask him out if he says no he is still your friend.
2006-07-21 01:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Francisco F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flip a coin
2006-07-21 01:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by dwill604 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a cheap $lut...2 guys come on
2006-07-21 02:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with number two...number one is probably long gone...especially if you dont already know how he feels about you...
2006-07-21 02:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋