Can you have sex with someone and not LOVE them?
2006-07-20 18:32:41 · 22 answers · asked by Thumbs Up Fairy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you guys can, yall'd screw a warm cantalope!
2006-07-20 18:38:41 · update #1
yeah, why not
2006-07-20 18:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Pierre 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes! I have done this on many occasions. Each and everytime it happens I am usually with a female that says we are just have sex and nothing more. Then, things seem to change when they actually find out you have someone or that they get too attached.
2006-07-21 01:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by face of revenge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not mutually exclusive, but no, I would not equate the two. Our need for sex is driven by our libidos whereas our need for love is emotional. Sometimes frustrated sex can lead to sublimated emotions which become love, but these are misplaced. If the sex is really great, it might lead to emotional depth and love.
Sex is almost always enjoyable, love is almost always painful.
2006-07-21 21:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by hellbent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! It is actually better that way. That way you can have fun and feel good, and there are no feelings to get in the way and complicate things. You can enjoy the animalistic pleasures w/out worrying.....if he likes you, if he is seeing someone else, is he gonna leave you, is he using you, why did he say this or that. No need to put yourself thru all that mental torment when all you want is to get off.
2006-07-21 01:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes, but if you don't have it worked out for yourself it won't be good.
guys can have sex with a blow up doll and have fun.. females are more difficult.
even without an orgasm females can have a good time if they are mentally prepared and happy with what they are doing and in that case they can usually climax... but if they feel guilty about it they won't have fun and most definatly won't get to where they'd like to go
2006-07-21 01:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ralph M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe 1 can do anything he/she puts their mind to-I think u can love someone but not be IN love w/ him/her. I also believe that sex is what 2 people make it-intimate,romantic & full of emotion or just what it is-SEX-raw & pleasurable
2006-07-21 01:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont relate sex with love.you can have sex with someone you dont love.its better if you do love them.send me a im or e mail a pic if you would like to be put in easyrider ok you seem nice
2006-07-21 18:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by harley_man2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe woman r different to men when it comes to that. i ,as a woman i cannever sleep with a man i dont love, on the man side i think it is easier,that is why you find sex workers all over the hworld making good money. they are being f.....d by"good men" w ho loves their wives &girlfriends.
2006-07-21 01:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q2/a. i have had sex were it felt like love,and it was soo f*cking great.i said felt like love because she didn`t care.Q1/a. but then again
i have had veryvery sweaty, slipping off each other,heavy breathing hearts pounding kind of sex that lets you know your in love.
2006-07-21 02:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by bob p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can.
If you're a heartless &#@!ard. Or just wanna get laid.
It's easy for us guys to do this, but sometimes girls tend to get attached, which I feel bad for those ones, either way, it's not something I do.
2006-07-21 01:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can...but why? sex is the closest two people can be with each other. why be with someone you wont want to remain close to when the acts over. fall in love...
2006-07-21 01:38:58 · answer #11 · answered by jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋