2006-07-20 18:17:32 · 19 answers · asked by Spencer C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been best friends for 1 year and 4 months soo we have talked about alot of stuff but we just cant seem to find something to talk about.
2006-07-20 18:27:22 · update #1
try talking about your future, talk about setting some goals, alk about what you need and want from each other.
2006-07-20 18:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow first sign of being not COMPATIBLE!!!!! If you were compatible you guys would have so much to talk about it wouldn't be enough hours in the day to speak about all of them. If you're shy and she is too, i'm sorry who's gonna break the ice for you guys. Who approached who? Don't tell me it was the keyboard that did all the talking? If so that was the second mistake after logging on to one of those lame @$$ chat lines. See if you guys can become friends first then work on the relationship. Its a building process, not a "hi, hi wanna be my girlfriend, O.K." process.
2006-07-21 01:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about her day and any thing that gets her to talking about her a female most of the time like to be listened to and think that she interests you. Ask her things like what can I do to see that pretty smile of yours a lot more. How was your day what can i do to make you happy right now at this point and time stuff like that
2006-07-21 01:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously. Get a hobby, both of you. Maybe you could go volunteer somewhere or take up something new, like a hobby. Then you will have more to talk about.
2006-07-21 01:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try going someplace new and talk about all the things you see. Why not try talking about a dream vacation. Watch tv together and talk about the show afterwards. Talk about your likes and dislikes. Talk about friends and family. Theres tons to talk about if you think about it.
2006-07-21 01:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by ella s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, make sure you dont talk about your futur though... cuz it's gonna make things go bad... just talk about, what she likes, what you like, try to ask her out often enough, but not too much, just be yourself. just talk about what yu feel talking about, but don't just talk about you all the time... try to make a conv. tell her how pretty she is, tell her that you love her more then anything... you know... just start with a normal conv. don't need to talk about everything in the world...
be cool and be yourself, and you'll be fine...
hope i helped...
2006-07-21 01:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her questions about what she likes and listen as if everything she says is so important to you. Do not day dream, pay attention to her, you wil be on your way to happiness if you can learn this simple technique, which most men never do.
2006-07-21 01:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh-oh...nothing to talk about already? As long as you guys are comfortable with each other that way...like old couples...but if not- I hate to say this, but maybe you both deserve to be with someone else?
2006-07-21 01:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World Peace, volunteering down at the Habitat for Humanity,
God! Your future., your parents, your childhood, your interests,
your plans. Best case scenarios! etc...
2006-07-21 01:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ahab 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about something you havent talked about for a long time.
2006-07-21 01:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a movie and talk about it after!
2006-07-21 01:19:24 · answer #11 · answered by jasmine m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋