Well, during the holidays me and my boyfriend we usually talk on the computer or sending emails or on the MSN. But sometimes he is really rude to me and keeps saying bad words to me and calling me ***** and this stuff. Then I ask why did he did that? And he says that his brother (which is his twin brother, that I've dated already and we had a horrible relation) wrote that, but this things happen so many times that sometimes I thing he is just playing with my feelings.
I already talked to my friends about it and they say that him and his brother is just trying to do a "revenge" and I should break up with him.
But I realized that I cant break up with him. I love him so much that I cant break up with him.
Sometimes I get so sad and upset that I stay home locked on my room crying all day long.
I need help!! Please help me
2006-07-20 18:14:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you wouldn't really know if he saying the truth or simply just a lie. After all,even if he did really do it or didn't do it..you wouldn't be able to find out. My advise to you is talk to him on phone or meet out, you guys shouldn't talk on MSN, email or even sms each other for you wouldn't know who is the one talking to u. That could allow u to know is it really him who say those thing. If he truly loves you, he would make an attempt to meet you no matter where u are and one more thing is that he could actually download msn plus which enables u to lock your MSN when u are away..he could use that if he assume it was his brother who did it..He should have log off his acc or that his brother could do anything..just some advise..Good luck..God bless
2006-07-20 18:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have low self esteem. You must like not being treated well, or you wouldn't put up with this chit. This is not love, trust me. You only think you are. You need some counseling, if you don't,..you will live a life full of unhappiness.
2006-07-21 01:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are crying all day because he says the right things and makes you feel the love, stay and be happy, if not...there are 3 billion men in this world, go enjoy your life.
2006-07-21 01:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if its his bro. still shouldnt be doing that. and after a while you know its him. it cant happen that many times. and leave you in you room. i know you love him. but u cant keep living like this? can you? no u cant. move on find some one that will treat you right and make you happy. not sad n locked up in your room
2006-07-21 01:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by wakertats1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick a word that only you and your bf know such as "pizza" and when you are MSNing have him say the "password" so you know it is him. Otherwise only trust what he says to you when you are together and not what is said on the computer....and don't say stuff on the computer that you would not want his twin to know.
2006-07-21 21:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think his brother did that. he could have set a password, right? but you really should confront him (or his brother) about this. if they were playing with your feeling, then dont be afraid, break up with him. this might sound painful but it's the only way, or you'll just keep getting hurt
2006-07-21 01:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by tuananh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy does not make you feel good, about yourself, about being with him, than he IS NOT the guy for you. Dump him and learn to feel good about yourself without him.
Than look for a guy.
2006-07-21 01:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋