I've known this girl for about 8 months now. I've only been attracted to her for about six of those months. I find out that she's dating a guy. So she's unitainable, right? But stupid me still liked her, knowing that it was a dead end. About a month ago I told her how I felt about her, and it turns out the feelings are mutual. She's still with her boyfriend, whom she is always annoyed by and they are always fighting. She always tells me what a great person I am. There were a few occaisions where she almost broke up with here boyfriend and went to me. But recently I asked here and she said she was happy the way she was. I know I can treat her better than he does. I love her. But at the same time she doesnt want to be saved. Is the best thing to do let the whole thing go and move on? should i be persistant?
2006-07-20 18:08:27 · 15 answers · asked by Will F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should let it go and move on. She shouldn't leave him for you. She should leave him because she doesn't want to be with him anymore. You want to make sure she wants you for you and not because she's trying to make him jealous. Let it go and find someone who is available and who likes you too. Good luck.
2006-07-20 18:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Drop it like a hot rock. Why would you want a girl who cant make up her own mind about what she is doing! p.s. if you are under 21 bang every available girl untill you meet the one that can take your **** 24/7! pizzout
2006-07-21 01:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbi365.24.7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo man you got to slow your role. I have been in the same place. You need to tell her that she has a bf and it isnt fair to him. she should to her bf how it feels and you got to tell her that you could only be friends. Put yourself in her bf's shoes. You like her and it probably hurts you to let her go but it aint right.
2006-07-21 01:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you real sure that she is in love with you??if you are then make your motive clear that you want to be with her but do not wish to be her second boyfriend and ask her if she really want to be with you, she has to break up with her boyfriend since she claim that her boyfriend is annoying and the one she love now is u and no longer her boyfriend..
2006-07-21 01:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth,you will never be anything. with young woman.sooo from one man to another,MOVE ON.really i`ve been there.she likes the attention, but thats all it is...
women play games like that,they don`t mean to they just do.
I got one who is married.but we have knowen each other since
we were like 5. she will always be mine in my heart.now i`m
listening to my own advice. I`M MOVING ON...
2006-07-21 01:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by bob p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man why play behind the fence and watch someone who could be your chosen one be with someone who is a dum one. Go for her even if she has a bf. She ain't married anyways.
2006-07-21 01:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man usually id say move on but u said u luv her if u luv her then stick with it u dont luv too many ppl i kno how u feel see im in luv with this girl but shes goin outwith another guy and i dont kno wat to do i mean its almost exactly the same situation as urs but i still dont hav an answer
2006-07-21 01:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by nerevar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't save those who don't need to be saved.
But...there's nothing wrong with friends with benifits. Don't sweat the whole relationship tripe, hang out with her, kiss, whatever.
Live
2006-07-21 01:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jillian C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL
WILL LOVE YOU AND NOT PLAY GAMES, SHE HAS ISSUES
BUT I WOULD NOT LET HER PLAY WITH YOUR HEAD. IF
SHE SO UNHAPPY WITH HER BOYFRIEND SHE WOULD NOT BE WITH HIM. IT TIME TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE. AND I DONT BELEIVE THAT YOU STUPID, JUST LIKE SOMEONE THAT DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY.
2006-07-21 01:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang around and feed her some bs to make her break up with her boyfriend. do little things that her man doesn't and make her realize that you are the one she should be with.
2006-07-21 01:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋