2006-07-20 18:00:35 · 38 answers · asked by uknow who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. it's very wrong. And remember what Dr. Phil says...If they'll do it WITH you..they'll do it TO you. Most mistresses who becomes wives, usually get cheated on. And they deserve it. total karma. What comes around goes around.
2006-07-20 18:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
COME ON PEOPLE. It's not like she is the only guilty party here. All these people are commenting about you breaking up a marriage but we don't even know the story. No one knows the situation but you. I mean, is he full on playin' like he's happily married at home but sneaking off to be with you or is he separated from the wife and going through a divorce? Either way, every situation is different but keep in mind that all the stereotypes exist for a reason and you are at a very very high risk for being the one left behind & hurt.
2006-07-20 18:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is adultery OK? You already know the answer to that question. What you may not know is that any kind of sexual immorality or even lust is all part of the same thing, and ultimately has nothing to do with sex, and everything to do with greed - which is short for idolatry(1). And surely you've heard the commandment 'You shall have no other Gods before Me'... (2)
You know the feeling: oh, I've got to have [whatever/whoever], I just can't live without [him/her/it/them]. Any time we think that about anything or anyone, we are putting them in a position in our lives that should be occupied by, if anyone, only by God.
And actually, this all applies to God as well. If we are with God, worshiping Him, or whatever, because we 'can't live without Him', then we are not worshiping Him, but rather our own selves and our own needs. Which kind of misses the point.
So, this guy is unlawful to you. If you continue to allow yourself to desire him, you are disrespecting him, his wife and God. And you are showing that it is not him you love, but rather yourself and your desires.
But I hope that you know better than to do that. This is so important, it is worth going to great lengths to do the right thing(3).
So you know, I've had it happen a couple of times that I managed to develop feelings for someone and find out after that, that they were married (thank God, before anything actually happened). What I wrote above, plus simply understanding the oneness created by the marriage bond, helped me to make sense of the situation and move on(4).
May God give you the strength to do the right thing, as you put your hope in Him(4)
2006-07-20 18:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldn't be wrong to be in love with a married man if you love him for all the right reasons.
2006-07-20 18:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Verie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely yes. Think if you were married and some girl went after your hubby cuz she felt like she loved him. Wouldn't feel too good would it? If you feel like you are in love with him then you need to distance yourself from him till you can sort those feelings out and get over him. Definitely do NOT act on those feelings. It'll lead to heartbreak and disaster...for everyone involved. There are so many people in this world and by wanting someone not available you're missing out meeting a guy who is available.
2006-07-20 18:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by jncsquared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its very wrong. Just remember what goes around comes around. If this married man really wanted to be with you he wouldn't be married anymore. Take a hint.
2006-07-20 18:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is natrual so it is not wrong. But it is wrong if you break up a marriage unless she wants to get out. I was in love with a man who was seperated but I met him after they seperated. And I know a guy who has been seeing a married women (sex and all) for over 3 years...that's wrong in my opinion.
2006-07-20 18:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there is no WRONG reasons in falling in love. But it becomes wrong if you fall in love with the wrong ones. Being in love with a married man is not wrong (at first)coz you don't force yourself to fall for him and you dont actually "planned" to fall in love for him. But the thing here is that if you let yourself to be in love with him, "its still you" who will suffer in the end in this situation if you let it happen. So better off not to let yourself in this kind of situation, since you still have the chance to have your own relationship in a less complicated situation, of course to be with a single man. Goodluck!
2006-07-20 18:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... im sorry but you NEED to get out of this situation very quickly before things get worse and you too are tempted.... maybe if its an "amber frey" type of thing where you didnt know until recently that he was married..... but even then let go of your feelings for him- he's taken and honestly would you want to be with someone who cant be trusted..... think of it for the long run... its hard but let him go. Gods got a plan for you way better than you could ever imagine!
2006-07-20 18:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are his wife. No seriously we can't always help who we fall in love with. Unfortunately that does not make being with that person morally right either. Don't be a home-wrecker. Think of how you would feel in his wife's place. Not to mention he will eventually do the same thing to you.
2006-07-20 18:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by geni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, I loved my father.
But really ,save your self the humility of being involved with some one that is married till they are divorced .
2006-07-20 18:06:32 · answer #11 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋