my two year old little gurl got taken away from mr wat do i do her father said i abuse her so now he has her he is a jerk he is 18 and i am 18 but why would i abuse her i ain't like that come on now but she is a mama's gurl wat do i do i cry every nite please tell me wat to do her father abuses her not me some one help me
2006-07-20 17:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by lovely one 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Only a lawyer can help at this point.
Besides he'll get tired of taking care of her. It's a big job.
If a judge motioned to take the child there must be a reason.
I think you are in denial. What did you do? It is rare a child is taken away from a mother.
2006-07-20 18:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some here, there had to be a basis for her to be taken from you. Some kind of proof that she wasn't in a great environment. Your situation might be complicated, or not. Whichever, I hope you still have some rights to see her. You sound like you're a caring mother if you cry every night. How horrible. Reach out and talk to someone, a counselor maybe.
And, pray. For the best for everyone in the situation. I believe there can be two wrong parties, maybe one was just put in the spotlight and not the other? If both are worried about the safety of the child, you know? If you try to make him look bad being spiteful ( playing his game maybe) she could get taken away from both of you, and if you did state this ( that she was being abused by him) why would he have her? Take care of yourself, reach out, and work towards joint custody. No child should be torn from either caring parent.
2006-07-21 01:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through every parenting program that cps gives you to do- NEVER miss a day, don't do any drugs, or smoke,or drink booze, get into church,take some classes so you can get a good job and make a comfy, safe, and reliable home for her and then wait for your worker to check you out to make sure everything is done right. If you think he is hurting her now-call cps and tell them but be sure to take pictures and write down everything with the date and time and any witnesses that saw the bruises/injuries, or the abuse being done. If you just call and say that he is hurting her, it will be your word against his. I pray that she is safe and that your family will be healed in Jesus' name. Amen
2006-07-21 01:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, it's hard to understand what's going on here. Can you go into more detail about your situation? How exactly did the baby's father get custody of her?
2006-07-21 01:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Lawyer. NOW. Do not listen to anyone from CPS when they say you don't need one. Sell everything you can if you have to but whatever it takes get a lawyer.
2006-07-21 01:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by alphakat69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray get a lawyer and if the state is involved do everything they tell u
2006-07-21 01:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ide like to know why they had reason to take her of you they must have some kind of evidence they wouldnt take her away otherwise sorry just saying it how it is
2006-07-21 04:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who took her from you?? if the system did, then it was SOMETHING u did to have her taken. sorry to sound rude bu ti had to tell it like i see it.
2006-07-21 01:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police
2006-07-21 01:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by gggg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to jesus ok love from a friend
2006-07-21 01:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋