I'm dating a guy for 3/4 months. But thinks are not going well. I had dated his twin brother which was a horrible relation with didnt last for even a month. Then I started dating him twin brother, with we are together until now. But he never takes me seriously and he never calls me or send me a e-mail.
This actions makes me stay really sad and I almoust cry everyday.
My friends said to me that he is just playing with my feeling and him with his brother is just trying to give me a "revenge" because my relation with his brother didnt went well.
But I love him a lot and I can't break up with him.
I'm afraid that if I continue crying everyday I will get into a deep depression.
I need help
2006-07-20 17:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if I should follow my heart or my head!
2006-07-20 17:55:18 · update #1
YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, IT SOUND LIKE HE IS USING YOU
BECAUSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS BROTHER, WHICH IS A PLACE YOU REALLY DONT GO. THAT NOTGOOD
AND THAT MAY BE WHAT THE PROBLEM. IS, LEAVE THIS
SITUAITON ALONG AND MOVE ON TO SOMEONE ELSE.
2006-07-20 17:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see it as revenge. But he's still hurting you. You got to get out of it before you end up in depression. I understand you love him, but is not like he is giving you love back. You can always try to solve this problem by talking to him. Tell him how bad it makes you feel and how bad it could end. He has to listen to you, if he cares. If he doesn't listen and have a resolution, just get out of it. It's great that you love him, but you have to receive some of that, too. You derserve it because you are giving it to him. Like I said before, if he doesn't help to keep the relationship leave him. You deserve better. He doesn't deserve your heart, girl. In a relationship, both have to give eachother's heart. It seems like you have giving it to him. But where's his? He's not showing it. That's unjust. Well, talk to him. If you see that it is going anywhere, leave him. Don't make your life miserable. You can always find someone better. Good luck and take care of your heart.
2006-07-21 01:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you stupid?? did your parents raise someone to be weak and to be taken advantage of?
Look, if you have any self respect and dignity you'd be out and moving on. You have enough reason already, yourself.
Are you not worth being with someone who will care and not make you cry?
2006-07-21 00:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do need help. He's not worth it. He's a jerk. Move on...to someone outside of this family.
2006-07-21 00:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a therapist, no one here can help you more than they could.
2006-07-21 00:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to yourself? Smarten up. Move on.
2006-07-21 00:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try stop see him and call him and twin brother,and also try find clue you hate him....what they done to you
2006-07-21 01:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by nurr j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends maybe right darl *** him off
2006-07-21 00:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋