one has been my close friend since we were in kindergarden, who's the same age as me. the other, is a college student all the way in california (i live in hawaii). that close friend probably knows i like him back, and hes been trying to get around asking me out real soon. (i heard from his friend). and i liked my close friend first, except the college guy.... weve been playing tennis together every summer for about three summers and we flirt and once talked on the phone a lot. now, hes kinna like planning to teach me how to surf and asking "when should we go?" questions. he also mentioned how he was glad i IMed him and talked to him yesterday. (i didnt talk to him on AIM before). AND he's like four years older than me... so i dont think itll work but he's always in my head! (sorry this is confusing... :\ ) and when i told my close friend's friend that i may like someone else, he got mad... so idk what to do. i think maybe ill just stick with my close friend cause theres no chance.
2006-07-20 17:43:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u already answered what u should do in ur last sentence. probably because u know that's what ur heart's saying and want .so go for it with ur close friend, u cant give up a relationship u've had 4 practically ur whole life 4 a guy who i think u dont really know. besides, real friends are here to stay and guys who wanna teach u to surf go and come.lol.besides ur friend seems like he's really into u and i know u feel the same way!good luck!
2006-07-20 17:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by slims 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"go with your heart" that's the answer everyone is gonna give you. NOT ME!!!
Look, you obviously have grown feelings for this college guy and he likes you. Who cares if he's 4 yrs older. You like him, he likes you, you two are going to see each other more since you live on the same island and go to the same school. So there is no question about what to do. Go for the college guy.
2006-07-21 00:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. But in my opinion if he is really a true friend I wouldn't get involved with him because you wouldn't want to ruin a good frienship if things don't work out between the two of you.
2006-07-21 00:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by uknow who 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until the man comes along that will treat you like the first woman he ever knew and that you will feel like he is the first man you have ever known.
2006-07-21 00:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU REALLY DONT KNOW YOU WANT TO BE
WITH, AND YOU NEED TO BE HONEST WITH THESE TWO
GUYS, LEADING THEM ON LIKE THIS IS NOT GOOD AT
ALL, YOU NEED TO MAKE A CHOICE, PLAYING WITH PEOPLE
FEELINGS IS NOT A PLACE YOU WANT TO BE.
2006-07-21 00:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them both. you aren't married.
2006-07-21 00:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by badiddley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋