ok there is this girl that i am in love with but she is taken. we almost went out and then she broke up with her bf but then she got back together with him. she is still not sure who to choose. how do i win her?
2006-07-20 17:40:45 · 27 answers · asked by korey h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-20 17:48:03 · update #1
i really love her and wont settle until i win
2006-07-20 17:48:22 · update #2
time changes everything, and at your apparent ages she is not likely to settle on any one guy for long. be a friend to her if you choose.
you might consider what love really is, and whether or not you can truly be "in love" with someone you don't know very well and who does not reciprocate your feelings. most likely, it's just your hormones in overdrive....
2006-07-20 17:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have several options. You can put your life on hold and wait to see how things turn out between her and her boyfriend and if she picks him then you wasted all your time and effort. Or, if she sees that you may be interested in someone else, she may think, "wait a minute, I can't let this great guy get away". Honestly she probably won't pick you if she thinks you'll always be there and maybe she thinks she'll just keep you as a back up in case it doesn't work out with her and her boyfriend and you don't want to be that. Don't be so available either, yes, listen to her and be there when she really needs you but if she just wants to call and chat, say you have to go, you have something you need to do, make her curious, be a little mysterious but not too much.
2006-07-20 17:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To you this is not a game. She decided to go back to her bf after she had broken it off with him. Sounds like her lose to me. Drive on with your live and just keep you mind busy. Do other things, get out and volunteer. There is an old saying, "if you lover her let her go" she may come back later. As long as she is with the bf, let her be. Acting to desperate for the lady will surely push her away or even worse, you could get used. Best advise I can give is do your own thing and leave her alone for now.
2006-07-20 17:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon you don't. she has to chose you, i think that you should try moving on, call me all kinds of crazy, but if she is not seeing the value of being with you now then stop wasting your time. i bet there are other girls out there who want to be with you if you give them half a chance. stop and really consider if it's love you really feel or a crush, cause it's like she's unattainable so you love her all the more and when you finally get her you wonder what it was you were really feeling cause it sure isn't love! I'm not in your shoes but i will say I've been there and moved on, it's not easy, but take your time and consider your options, all the best.
2006-07-20 17:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that we are unique and deserve to be respected. Feelings are not something you play with. We are not toys that could be used, and when we get tired of them we can throw them away. We really need to value ourselves. It seems to me that if she decided to go back with her boyfriend is because she has a special feeling for him. Love? I do not know, but I do know that you really need to think about it. There are many girls in this world and the right one will come at the right moment, but if you just concentrate on someone else's girlfriend you might miss your princess. Also, she also needs to give herself time to work on her feelings. I wish you the best!
2006-07-20 18:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Reinita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huhhhh son tell u the truth u cant win a girl by doing somthing be ur self , if she broke up with him n got baq together with him she prolly has more feelings 4 him then u i mean this is through experiance if she really ws intrested she woulda went to u whe they broke up move on find somone new n better or u will end up like me depressed ( not good)
2006-07-20 17:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow and do not pressure things too much. If it is not right, you might want to stay out of the way in the end though
2006-07-20 17:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get up in the morning and go to work. Stop obsessing about crazy sshit. Remember that you have things to do in the real world...living in a fantasy world is part of being a teenager...but in the real world we don't have that kind of time.
2006-07-20 17:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to win her. It isn't fair to the other guy. You may not even know him but have you ever heard of karma? What goes around comes around. If you try to break them up to get with her then karma means that when you are with her (or someone else you like alot) some other guy may try to break up your relationship.
If you are meant to be with her then it'll happen.
2006-07-20 17:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by jncsquared 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her how much you mean to her. Show her that you can do better than him. She's a fool for going back with him. Make her realize that you are a much of a man thatn her current boyfriend. Tell her how you feel. Good luck, dude! Go for it!
2006-07-20 17:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋