hey guys. i realized, i think i like a good friend of mine, nd my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. she wheeled me back in and when i got close she pushed me out of her life. now i moved on, and i opened up again and pretty much got tired of being upset all the time over my ex. now, an old friend, became a good friend, and now we just feel things, its cute and fun. my ex started calling me the night after all this happens, she doesnt know about it but shes like, picks the wrong times...guys what do i do. sbhould i just shut out my ex, b/c i feel i should b/c i know she'll hurt me again. time for your advice.
2006-07-20 17:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by peter pan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's your ex... Tell her that you've found someone else... she's a big girl and your not responsible for her feelings only she is. She will get over it.
2006-07-20 17:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-boyfriend always reeled me in like that, and finally, I just had to stop talking to him, because it was always like "I still love you, come back", and then "I don't want a girlfriend right now", and the worst part was that he'd be with other girls when we were broken up, so yeah, just don't take her calls, and try to avoid seeing her for now. In a few months, she might be more over you, and then you two can have fun just being friends or something, like me and my ex were finally able to do.
2006-07-20 17:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Arianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that things between you and your ex and not going to work or you and her would not be breaking up all the time. My advice to you is to move on. Find someone that makes you happy. If its this good friend of your then good for you.
2006-07-20 17:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yr ex the true, that u already like someone else and yr feeling! all those hurtful moment that u suffer when u gals break up and that u already want to move on with yr life!!!
2006-07-20 17:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by tsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ex will never change. She had a few chances and blew them with you. So i say go for the new girl. It sounds like you two have fun together and enjoy each others' company. So enjoy it while it lasts.
2006-07-20 17:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex keeps hurting you, isn't it time to remove her from your life entirely? I think so. Go out with this new girl, she sounds much nicer than your crazy ex. (as long as the new girl isn't best friends with the ex, because that is just wrong.)
2006-07-20 17:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably will hurt you again. This other girl seems like someone worth spending your time with. Good relationships sometimes start out with friends.
2006-07-20 17:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you a glutton for punishment? If ya like to play games, keep your ex. If you want to move on and be happy date the new girl.
2006-07-20 17:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know exactly what you should do.
Move on. Tell her "Thanks. It was fun, but I've moved on."
2006-07-20 17:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋