Is looking at just physical appearance shallow? Does vanity get you anywhere? Sex is lame. What do you think? I can't understand why people abuse what God give to us, the ability ro pro-create, reproduce. It's lame when men say they let the balls do the thinnking and women throwing themselves at men for physical attention. I mean, I'm not perfect but I hate the idea of being made used of by men for their lust. Such things are so shallow. Men distort sexual organs for their evil desires. Why??
2006-07-20 17:32:48 · 18 answers · asked by spa_wellness 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm sorry if my statements have offended any of the male species but I've been hurt before and it hurts when majority of the men I've come acrossed are under the 'shallow' catagory.
2006-07-20 17:52:20 · update #1
"What does being shallow mean to you?"
Not being deep. Surface. Immediate reaction to the physical. No inner thoughtful creativity.
"Is looking at just physical appearance shallow?"
Good enough explanation.
"Does vanity get you anywhere?"
I think that you are talking about someone else now. I don't think that the shallow person necessarily is vain. The vain tend to attract the shallow.
"Sex is lame."
Well who have you been . . . . nevermind.
"What do you think?"
I think that you might have let yourself get involved with a shallow person after a vain attack. What do I do with this? lol a lot.
"I can't understand why people abuse what God give to us, the ability ro pro-create, reproduce. It's lame when men say they let the balls do the thinnking and women throwing themselves at men for physical attention."
Girl, you've got to get a hold on yourself!
"It's lame when men say they let the balls do the thinnking and women throwing themselves at men for physical attention."
Just say no next time! Look, my sides are hurting now.
"I mean, I'm not perfect but I hate the idea of being made used of by men for their lust. Such things are so shallow. Men distort sexual organs for their evil desires. Why??"
Because you are learning that certain men are that way, and you are attracting them! Stop letting them in.
Do this:
find a guy you've never seen before. Get to know him, no sex. If you are attracted to him, don't tell him. If he comes on to you, don't even make out with him.
The main focus of this exercise is to find out what kind of man he is. If he turns out like the others, believe me, you'll know in time, try to figure out what's wrong with you. That's right, it's you that is wrong here. Those guys, they suck. I'll agree with you on that. ALL of them sucked? What's wrong with you for being with the same type of guy more than once.
You want sexual freedom? Great! But pay the price. Either that or do everyone a favor and get your tubes tied. We don't want to see another fatherless kid.
2006-07-20 17:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 19⤊ 7⤋
"Sex is lame?"
At first I was going to say THAT was a shallow statement, but I suppose, given what you've been through, it might be true for you, and I hope a time is coming when you will find some men you can get along with.
Sex is not lame, and relationships are not shallow, when you find someone you can have hopes and dreams with, work together towards a common goal, seek God together, and enjoy each other's bodies together in marriage.
And of course, men and women can be friends without being involved in physical intimacy as well.
2006-07-21 01:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by miraclewhip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shallow - to me - means never taking the time to truly get beyond the physical and connect emotionally and spiritually with your mate. Far too many couples unnecessarily rush into sex before they work on their relationship as they should. Hence, the current divorce rate.
In our American culture, we're constantly being bombarded by the message that everything must always be NOW! NOW! NOW!!! A relationship - a good, intimate relationship - cannot be microwaved. It takes a lot of time, effort, and love to become what it's meant to be - an open and honest, sharing and caring, hand-in-hand daily walk through the storms and sunny days of life together. Being shallow lacks the "other-centeredness" of love and merely seeks its own self-centered interests.
2006-07-21 00:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is shallow of character to me is someone who gives all the right answers but has no depth of character to back them up - they remind me of a really fat man sitting at his desk, leaning back in his chair, belly smoothly even with the desk and bragging at what a great clean desk and efficient office he runs - while the secretary outside his office, has already made two pots of coffee, vacuumed the office, handled 15 calls, made arrangements and accomodations for incoming appointments, and has fully prepared and typed with double spacing each word the great man at the desk is saying; while all the time, the guest are looking through the glass partition and realize that the secretaries desk is neatly organized and well-used, the filing cabinets are well-labeled and the bosses office looks as though it's the first time he entered it. They then know which one has the real depth of character. The scenario can be any gender, any size, and any scene - but the moral is the same. Character is only as deep as its sincerity.
2006-07-21 00:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by dph_40 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who make comments such as, "Men distort sexual organs for their evil desires" are shallow people.
Sexual desire is one of the most powerful of all human urges and it is not "evil." Unless, of course, you hang out with "evil" people, which would make you not only shallow, but a hypocrite, as well.
The vast majority of people are shallow to the vast majority of other people. Shallow is an easy way to socialize with people with whom you do not wish to share an intimate or personal relationship.
There is nothing wrong with being shallow, it is human nature.
2006-07-21 00:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Left the building 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, I think you answered your own question.
I think of shallow as being 'flash over substance'
You kind of lost me at the end though, seems like you think most men are shallow? Well, lol, maybe they are. But not all. You need to meet different men methinks. Ones more interested in you than your body, cause your 'you' sounds interesting enough.
2006-07-21 00:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thou shall not judge.
You shouldnt asume that people are evil, based on the actions that you see them perfom. When it comes down to it, no one knows what is in the hearts of their neighbors, thats why the Bible tells us not to judge in the first place. Its ok to disagree with the way other people live their lives, but remember it is their lives. Being able to live and let live, and not judge, is what keeps YOU from being shallow..
2006-07-21 00:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by alphaloregod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallow has nothing to do with being self centered! weird!
Being shallow is Basing your opinion on someone based on there appearance and material posessions!
Some people wont date someone because they are not attractive or dress nice or drive a nice car.. That is shallow!
2006-07-21 00:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jade H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shallow is only looking at the surface. If there is meaning below, beyond that, then it's not shallow.
2006-07-21 00:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen don't let BOYS pressure you into that physco babble bull shittt! Sex is a teeny bit over-rated. Trust me i know. And being shallow is being
STUPID
DULL
CLUELESS
DUMFOUNDED ANYTHING ALONG THE BASELINES OF BEING CLUELESS AND PITFUL BY ANLL MEANS. dID SOMEONE CALL YOU SHALLOW? aND THEY WANT SEX BECAUSE THE NEED TO FEEL IN CHARGE TO SOW THEIR ROYAL OATS IS WHAT TV CALLS IT.
2006-07-21 00:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by ~A'Mya~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shallow suggests credulous. Religions seems to provide fertile ground for credulity.
2006-07-21 00:38:03 · answer #11 · answered by zilker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋