i never met this girl, but shes a friend of a friend, and i get her SN from my friend....i talked to her, which led to her wantin me to call her, i called her a couple times, and last nite shes like "i think i fell for you" and im like ok.... so is this girl weird cuz she can fall for a guy she never met or am i that great
2006-07-20 17:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, that's how I got into my most serious relationship, but the guy WAS a charmer, so maybe she is wacky, but think about it this way: as long as you guys had a fun time talking and getting to know each other without lying, and you have a mutual friend (my point being that you each know that the other is not a murderer or something), does it matter that you haven't yet met in real life before? As long as you DO meet, and you hit it off the same way, I don't see a problem with it.
2006-07-20 17:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has low self esteem and falls for whoever gives her the time of day.
She will be a very good, devoted (almost to the point of smothering girlfriend). She will care for you as much as possible. That doesn't really make her crazy, nor does it make you that desirable. She wants SOMETHING real though...if you aren't in the mood .......don't bother. Whether you turn her down now or later she will have a broken heart. That's just the way she is.
2006-07-21 00:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is a fantastic aphrodisiac. Not being in regular contact with people, not seeing them face to face, can increase your desire for them. ('Absence makes the heart grow fonder' works on this principle of an absentee person turning into a fantasy figure.)
Of course, I'm not saying you aren't charming. Keep in mind, though, she hasn't said that she loves you, yet. Just that she thinks she really likes you. Be honest about how you feel about her. From the sounds of it, you need to tell her that you enjoy talking to her, but "fell for you" feels too fast for you, and give her a chance to express her feelings. (Plus, points for sensitivity, if it's handled right!)
2006-07-21 00:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by bardoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hasn't really fallen for *you* - she's maybe falling for a fantasy she's made up with what little information she knows about you, and filling the rest in with what she hopes for. She's obviously a romantic. But she's falling for a fantasy that doesn't really exist.
2006-07-21 00:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very possible she feels a huge connection to you soley on talking to each other , it's very easy to like people who you don't hang around personally , cause its like a false sense of who a person is , like they don't see you in the morning all yuk before you shower , or when ur pissed off , they just see the nice side of you . it's an illusion of the real you she's falling for .
2006-07-21 00:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this girl is not shallow and can like a guy for his personality without having to see what he looks like. I guess to her you are that charming. Why not met her and she how it goes?
2006-07-21 00:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has never met you,so not to say your not great but I think she's weird. I can't see anyone fall in for anyone they haven't even met.
2006-07-21 00:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, maybe you are a charmer, or maybe she's one of those girls that tend to fall fast. I would definitly get to know her better before you start anything serious.
2006-07-21 00:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by WhateverHappened2MyLunchbox? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time especially when we feel insecure
2006-07-21 00:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tuxi X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not that great...I mean, c'mon, look who you're asking, and about what! Spend more time studying, okay?
2006-07-21 00:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋