what would u say to her or write to her to console her
2006-07-20 17:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by IVY C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't know if there is anything that works 100% of the time with everyone. I think you just have to be there for her. Cook a meal, pick the kids up, do some washing for her. Often actions can speak louder than words. Give her some flowers. Give her cuddles. Let her know you are there - you are willing to help her with anything you can.
2006-07-20 18:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The wife is most likely going to be stressed and worried. I am not sure what to say, but I do know that doing something special can sometimes mean more. A card or flowers with a short note of concern. Or just letting her know that you are there if she needs anything. But I think if it was my friend I would take her out to lunch or something to get her mind off the situation if only for an hour.
2006-07-20 18:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is happening to me as my husband is having chemo. The best approach that I have found are practical, particularly cooking meals. In terms of talking let her tell you what she wants. I am still struggling for words and need to talk in my own time. Beware of telling her what she needs as she knows that better than anyone.
2015-05-30 18:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a "thinking of you" card and let her know you are so sorry to hear about this and that her husband and her are in your daily thoughts and prayers. Let her know that if there is anything you can do for them, please do not hesitate to call you anytime day or night as you are only a phone call away. Include your phone number before signing the card "with love."
2006-07-20 18:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that God is full of mercy and compassion and He heals all kinds of diseases!
Encourage her to take her husband to a healing prayer room in her area.
http://www.healingrooms.com/index.php?src=location&l=0
A group of us prayed for a woman with ovarian cancer last week and God healed her!
She went back to her doctor and he was counfounded because the cancer that he diagnosed was gone!
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Also we prayed for God to heal a man that was going to have an operation for an artificial knee. The doctor said that bone was rubbing against bone.
Sunday morning he told us that God gave him a new knee and he went out and ran 6 miles.
Something that he hadn't done in a long time!
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Another person we have been continuing to pray for,
has been going through Chemo but God enabled him to not have any side effects.
He never lost his hair or had any pain!
He got up every morning and went about his normal routine.
His cancer is GONE!!
2006-07-20 17:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will truely console her, just be there for her and call her often, let her know you care without saying it.
2006-07-20 17:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by c g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say i know how you feel when you dont. just let her know she has a shoulder to lean on. Or that you will be there if she needs help.
2006-07-20 17:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by pashapuri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋