I just found out that this guy zak i liked also liked me but then there's John and Alex
Zak-Love him,funny,sweet,we'd be great 2gether,the whole package
John-Sweet,shy,cute,i hate his freinds,
Alex-cute,skater,fun,but he likes my best freind but he likes me more so wat do i tell my freind?but he wants to keep it a secret and i can do that
im so confused!!!!please help me!!!!!Wat should i do????????
2006-07-20 17:02:56 · 10 answers · asked by Drea P =) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, no wonder you're confused - that's a lot going on at one time.
The one clear choice here is Alex - he wants you to "keep it a secret?" Not a good sign. Red, flashing lights, loud sirens, and big signs with X's through them on Alex. Anyone who's worth your while wants to be seen with you, in public, no tricks, no games.
Now the other two... You say that Zak is "the whole package," yet you aren't sure, or there'd be no question about John or Alex.
Why not hang with Zak, and with John, no rush to make the relationship be anything in particular, get to know them, let them get to know you, and see what happens? You'll figure out which guy is right for you - or meet someone in the meantime who's clearly "the guy," no questions.
The one super clear thing is that Alex is trying to play you, and you could end up hurting your friend for a guy who's just playing games.
2006-07-20 17:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart!!!!!!! but if i were u i would pick Zak!!!!!!!!! but i couldn't answer that question for u cuz i don't know ALL the details if u get what i'm sayin- but like follow ur heart and it probably would be better if u didn't get involved w/ alex cuz w/ ur best friend and all would turn into a huge mess!!!!!!!! so what do u think??? and anywayz u only live life once so live it to the fullest!!!!!!!! good luck and i hope u have a really really good life!!!
2006-07-21 00:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by dropdeadgorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for Zak. You said it there. The whole package. Try to eliminate as much drama as possible and go for the obvious choice.
2006-07-21 00:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a no brainer. Zak all the way.
2006-07-21 00:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Thinker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Zak. You said it your self, the whole package.
John - you are going to hang out with his friends, you just will. If you hate them why date him.
Alex - looser. If he wants to hide something this important from your BEST FRIEND what will he be hiding from you later?
2006-07-21 00:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by edaily777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cannot decide between multiple guys then you know you are too immature to be in a relationship. Just be friends with these boys until one stands out to you.
Being promiscuous and being with too many guys rarely if ever gets you a good decent husband.
Be the girl boys want to marry...not the one they only want to "date".
They want to date the bad girls and bring the good girls home to mom.
2006-07-21 00:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you like zak more so let your friend have alex
2006-07-21 00:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T LET ANYONE KEEP YOU A SECRET, IT SOUNDS LIKE HE WANTS TO HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. HATING SOMEONES FRIENDS SURE PUTS A DAMPER ON HAVING ANYTHING OF SUBSTANCE BECAUSE IT WILL LIMIT YOUR GUYS' SOCIAL TIME. SOUNDS LIKE THE TOTAL PACKAGE WINS.
2006-07-21 00:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha Tough one,,,,,, stay with zak it seems to be the best option
2006-07-21 00:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by charlie brown mex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life sucks, and then you die
2006-07-21 00:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋