I left my husbad 5 years ago and it is like I have the plague. I have been asked out on 3 dates and all by much older men. Not that that is a bad thing but how do I get men my age to be attracted in me again. I am not bad looking, I have a good sense of humor, I am a little rough around the edges but I know how to have a good time. What is it with you men?
2006-07-20 16:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's time you start doing things for yourself. Guys like confident women who can approach them.
2006-07-20 16:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just dates. You're not getting married. If a guy asks you out you shouldn't shoot him down JUST because he's older (i'm 25). If anything you could "use" those older guys as practice for the kinds of things you feel comfortable doing on a date. Just because a guy is older doesnt mean he's mature.
1) be comfortable
2) don't talk too much or a too little (it's not a tight rope to walk...)
3) Go to the kinds of places you think guys you'd like to date would go. If you want an academic type, go to coffee houses and museums and such. If you want an athletic type, go to hardcore gyms and sporting events. If you want a "youngin" go to the colleges (lol). Concerts are a good place too.
4) i don't suggest bars, unless you want to date a guy that goes to bars to pick up women...
2006-07-21 00:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try online dating ONLY to get your "groove" back. Once you get your groove back I'm sure you won't have any problems attracting men at the usual places.
Or.....ask a friend, family member or co-worker to hook you up on a blind date.
2006-07-20 23:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by NYCchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site has some pretty decent dating advice:
http://www.daylon.com/dating/
The most important thing is to take things slow and only settle for the best.
2006-07-20 23:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just start to go out to clubs,hang out have a few drinks i mean social clubs maby go on a single curise around your age and start meeting new people it will all son fall into place
2006-07-20 23:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to look to your friends for help, or be more pro active getting guys.
2006-07-20 23:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position girl...I think it's a matter of being exposed to more peeps....internet dating?
2006-07-20 23:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bolder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you if you dont mind me asking, and where are you, i know pleanty of guys whode be proude to have you, nice guys,
2006-07-21 17:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋