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I know I like this guy, and I know he likes me. But I am so afraid of dating and closeness and commitment... what am I supposed to do? This fear ruined my last two relationships!

2006-07-20 16:53:01 · 6 answers · asked by Red Rose 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

You need to talk to a professional. They can help get to the bottom of what is causing your irrational fears, and help you to work through them.

Why should you, and he, have to suffer?

For right now, until you get some help, take things slow. Don't let yourself get overwhelmed, and make decisions that will cause you to freak out.

Steady and slow might just win the race, especially when the other racers are exploding around you.

Good luck!

2006-07-20 16:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Khalen 3 · 1 0

I am the same way, but i now just don't worry about it, i set boundries and if anyone crosses it i get out of the relationship. I keep my fear but just not as much as it so it dosn't ruin relationships. Just enjoy yourself.

2006-07-20 16:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0 0

Well the only way to get over it is to face it so start a commitment and get over it

2006-07-20 16:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by E R I C K 2 · 0 0

YOU HAVE ANXIETY DISORDER.............go to your doctor and they have medication for that.......... you dont fear relationships, you just have stress, anxiety, and feeling pressured into a realtionship..........that can lead to anxiety, panic attacks.......

2006-07-20 16:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0 0

If you really liked him....you'd be going home "filled".... with something else!

2006-07-20 17:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YOU WILL NEVER GET MARRIED

2006-07-20 16:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by ! 3 · 0 1

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