what a guy needs to do if the girl he likes is avoiding him?
they are classmates. the girl is intelligent. the guy is so-so. the guy asks her to teach him some school stuff. guy suddenly felt he likes her. girl seems to like him too. and then she realized, he is somebody's son. she creates reasons to avoid him. he can feel she likes him. should he give her up?
2006-07-20 16:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by gaucherive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-20 16:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life status often becomes a hindrance to love relationship but I don't think it should. After all, one should not like somebody because of his riches or fame.. The guy you referred to should not give her up just because she is avoiding him. She should be made to realize that wealth should not play a role in determining who to love. Besides, when that rich guy marries her in the future, they will start their new married life on their own without havintg to depend on their parents.
To end feelings of love without valid reasons is very unfair and immature. The guy should be able to convince the girl that his family's financial status would not in any manner affect his love for any girl and should give her the assurance that his parents feel the same way too (if it's true that they do).
Tell that guy that in love, nothing matters but the love within the hearts of those persons in love. Age, riches, religion, or fame should never be the basis if one has to love. The only basis one has to consider is what his or her heart dictates.
2006-07-21 00:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look hon, you need to ask her straight out what's up. talk to her and listen to what she has to say maybe she's been in a situation like this before and was badly hurt, you rich guys can be pretty cruel intentionally or unintentionally. be honest with how you feel and i think you should take sometime and really think it through as to what you really feel for this girl and if you realise that you still like her then talk and keep talking until she really hears you. of course if right off the bat she says she's not interested then cool, but nothing beats a failure but a trial, all the best
2006-07-20 23:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not Prince William! Get off your butt and do what's necessary to win her heart.
My advice: You have to let her know that money is what you have, not who you are! It doesn't change you one way or the other. Let her know that you believe you two would be great together filthy stinking rich or dirt poor! All that matters to you is that you guys be together. If you give up now, then you don't deserve her because you never really wanted her in the first place. Whatever you do... don't prove her right!
Best Wishes!
2006-07-20 23:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better than Rich Girl courting Poor Guy~
Anyway...don't give her up-yet. See how the realtionship goes.
2006-07-21 00:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~Terr~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont give up if you she will always be in your heart and mind and you wont be able to commit to any other relationship because she will still be in your heart,you need to confront her or write her aletter telling her no matter hoiw rich or poor love doesnt distiguish and you want to get to know her,start to dazzle her and make her feel comfortable
2006-07-20 23:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is a bit confusing. you come from money she doesn't? who cares rich girls won't appreciate the things you do for her as much. just talk to her and tell that none of that matters to you or your family.
2006-07-20 23:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more details!! You need to find the reason to why she is avoiding you.
2006-07-20 23:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why.... why wud u do that... never give up unless u find out the other person has AIDS
2006-07-20 23:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF?WHY IS IT IN THAT PHOTO FOR A SOLDIERSWIFE, THAT WHITE GUY IS WITH SOME BIG FAT TUBBY BLACK *****?
2006-07-20 23:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋