every time i get into a relationship i give 100% why can't men do the same?
2006-07-20 16:45:37 · 27 answers · asked by Rene P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are dealing with boys, not men.
2006-07-20 16:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You've just been dating the wrong kind of men. Examine what kind of guys you are seeing. Try to meet guys in a different setting. Guys you would normally NOT date. Give them a chance. If you're basing your decision on looks alone, take your time and get to know an average looking guy for a change. I also think sometimes we have a pre-conceived idea of what a"perfect" man is. There is no such thing. Look for someone with common values and interests. Don't give up. Just look at it as a way of meeting new and different people. Have fun and don't be so serious.
2006-07-21 00:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the type of guys you're seeing. not all men are the same and not all women are the same either.
as well, maybe it'll work if you don't show that you give 100%, its sort a game. its silly but from the experiences i had, sometimes it works when you don't show that much effort. too much usually makes the guy back off
2006-07-20 23:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you cannot group a whole gender together like that. I m happily married for 5 years and I am 100% committed you just hvent found the right guy. You are proably ugly or something,maybe fat?
2006-07-20 23:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by ccccccc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving 50% next time, just to experiment and see what happens...
Alway hold back something, some boys think if they have you wrapped around their finger, they dont have to give...This works both ways. If your to needy, that turns a guy off, to controlling, they are young. Dont expect much for the opposite sex, they are trying to think with two brains and they cant even understand each other let alone you...
2006-07-21 00:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the REAL question...what type of men are you messing with??? The problem is you need to let love come to you instead of seeking it out. Try to find flaws within you that make them want to cheat. I'm not saying there is nothing wrong with you, but try to figure out what's the problem. Take more time finding yourself than finding true love.
2006-07-20 23:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A mature man can be truly committed.
An inexperienced, immature boy can not be faithful.
Maturity does matter, perhaps more so than the size of the equipment...
Hope that helps.
2006-07-20 23:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, lots of men have been committed.
John Wayne Gacy
Charles Manson
The Unibomber
Just to name a few.
2006-07-20 23:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Liam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one of the previous comments, your problem is the men you're choosing to have relationships with. You need to find a new group to pick from.
2006-07-20 23:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men seem to always want a challenge. something they cant or shouldn't have. play the game girl! give 100% only in moderation, dont be a pushover.
2006-07-20 23:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by chwylvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best guy friends is so committed to his girl he won't even hang out with other girls unless she knows and is ok with it. So yea guys can be truly comitted.
2006-07-20 23:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋