2006-07-20 16:32:30 · 19 answers · asked by amaka o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By avoiding you do you mean, no contact? No calls? How long have you been together? If it's just been a short time, I'd say he's done being with you. If you've been together several months or years, then there is a real issue as well. Something is clearly wrong there. I would demand to know what's up. But don't EVER beg him to return...you just DESERVE to have an answer. He owes you at least that. Don't let him convince you that this treatment is ok either. This is disrespectful. You really do serve better...Be strong and stand up for yourself.Good Luck......
2006-07-20 16:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well hon, is it really that he's avoiding you are is he honestly just busy. instead of jumping to conclusions talk to him, let him know how you are feeling and listen to what he has to say, if it is that he is busy maybe you should try finding things to do with your free time, become a volunteer, join a youth group, go out with your girlfriends more, find a new hobby do something. And if he is seeing someone else at least you'll be busy and it will help you get over him, sometimes as relationships progress that initial need to spend every free moment with that special someone wears off, whatever the outcome all the best.
2006-07-20 16:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is high possibility. Talk about my first date, he started avoiding me after 3 mths, i'm sure why but still calling him and sms him, in the end i can not take it anf broke up with him. I'm not sure whether he was seeing some1 else or not, but definately he was thinking of breaking up at that time. In fact he was giving me a chance to voice out.
Well it is always better for a girl to say ti than a guy say it.
U got to talk to him and ask him what happended. If he is like saying nothing nothing or busy no time, i think he is thinking of breaking up.. Well u better voice it first.
2006-07-20 16:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many posible reasons why your boyfriend is avoiding you, but what can really relieved you from this dilemma is that i suggest you to have a good talk with him, i mean you should talk to him directly regarding how you feel about how he treats you. If your bf really loves you, he will understand how you feel and will make the best thing for you. Don't be afraid to communicate to him, its the best way to know if he's really GOOD ENOUGH boyfriend for you. Good lUck!
2006-07-20 16:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. not eventually. Nobody knows what goes through someones mind. Everybody got there ways of dealing with problems. I suggest that u talk to him and find out why he's shutting u out and tell him to be honest. If he tells u he seeing someone else then take it the mature way and ask him why it happened , what went wrong in ur relationship that he had to see someone else. What can u do if he is seeing someone else . Whats done is done. Just say ur goodbyes.
2006-07-20 17:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is seeing someone else. Don't call him anymore. He will eventually call you. Be cold and distant until, either he never calls again, or he ask you what is wrong? Tell him that you can't understand why he couldn't tell you himself that he had someone else. He's a coward and and a cheater; he's not good enough for you. Your older and it's time for you to find a real man.
2016-03-16 02:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..dats what we girls think in the first place " is there someone else" but the truth is, many factors can contribute to he-avoiding-u. it can be that he is stuck in his web of problems?? maybe, financially, studies wise,parents, or self conflict? if he avoids you, it might be that he wants some time on his own-to rectify the problem,or he would find you to talk it out. but if he is having someone, you will know it eventually..
2006-07-20 16:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly! If you have a strong relationship! it shouldnt happen! Theres gotta be trust between you two! One day follow him or spy on him if you so suspicious! But honey! truth sometimes hurt if you find out yourself! Ask him first tho!
Then if he doesnt admitt it! then prepare yourself for the truth!
2006-07-20 16:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think he is see some one else or he migt not like you but does not want to tell you because he does not want to hurt your feelings.
good luck
2006-07-20 17:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by sexychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are if your like 15 16 then yes he is but if your an adult then he is probbably getting the guts to ask you to marry him
2006-07-20 16:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋