2006-07-20 16:27:49 · 38 answers · asked by Javon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not a loser. You simply haven't met the right ladies or perhaps you're not approaching them right. Love and lust is not a game you play --- between the ladies who rejected you and yourself, there is neither a winner or loser. You simply did not get further with them, making you a hard-worker and a resilient guy. Those are two traits that most people, women included!, find attractive, and I think if you continue trying, keep your head up, and don't worry about your wins and losses, you'll do fine. Good luck, man. : )
2006-07-20 16:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there is a bigger loser.
The afraid man that refused to try and talk to five girls today.
You are no where near as low as he feels! Because you took the chance, where he never rose above his fear.
Keep swing, you will hit something!
2006-07-20 16:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a bigger loser than you, we dared a friend of mine to get five girls numbers from this party we went to and well unfortunately he struck out like 13 times and well yeah never got any numbers either.
2006-07-20 16:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by bookwormforever16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol just because you got rejected by 5 girls today doesn't make you a loser. Maybe you're just coming on a little strong?
And yes, there are REAL losers out there but don't fret! :) I'm sure you'll find you're own rhythm to love! :)
2006-07-20 16:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you get rejected five times bye five differnt girls.
no I think you are doing a great job at being a loser if you got rejected five times. some guys get rejected but not five times come on you can do way much batter then that.
2006-07-20 17:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by sexychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, Now Im annoyed so listen up!!
You got rejected by 5 girls today....
Maybe you should relax on tallyin up a score of chicks that you can creep out.
If you are Under 18 - You will have plenty of time maybe you should work on your self esteem first off. Second work on yourself, develop yourself into a man, a respectable man, and then you will be ready to pursue...
If you are over 18 - #1 work on yourself esteem, Clean yourself up, nice smell, nice clothes, but dont over do it... Then go somewhere like a bar or a slower hangout spot, and RELAX, let the chick come to you.
Men who just keep trying are pathetic...
You have to play it cool, and relax, dont become overbaring and give a girl a chance to come to you...
By attempting every girl you see is going to cause you to end up with a hooker and a rash in the morning....
Your better than that, so play it cool and relax, and if you are demanding to go up to chicks, go up to one you have you eye on, not ever girl who passes you by...
Now I have ranted... Good Luck!
PS Not Ever Word In A Sentence Starts With A Capital Letter... =-)
Jess
ALSO LOL... The guy like three things above me says to compliment the way she looks... Not a good Idea... As questions and listen to her responses... By complimenting the way she looks will only tell her that your looking at her physically and thats all you want...
So, say... My names __________, whats yours?
Blunt and to the point...
Or you could say something witty and kinda funny, get a smile and youll have her...
You know how they say that the say to a mans heart is through his stomach...
well the way to a womans heart is laughter...
Make her laugh!
2006-07-20 16:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by irreplaceably_rare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just not a loser. Try getting to know the girls better before asking them out. And asking out 5 makes you sound desperate, not something someone like me would go after. I would want to feel like the guy likes me, not just to have a girlfriend, but that's just me.
2006-07-20 16:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by banana_splitt00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could possibly be a bigger loser out there somewhere.
2006-07-20 16:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You aren't a loser! You know why?
You tried!
It's the guys who are afraid to try that are the losers.
That being said, 5 in one day? Perhaps you are letting the hormones drive?
You'd do much better to spend time listening to a girl for a few hours and showing her your personality, sense-of-humor, and most importantly the ability to listen. (Yes, it might be painful to learn. ;-)
2006-07-20 16:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a loser. Hold your head high and don't look for girls on the internet. Get out of the house and look around at the grocery store.
2006-07-20 16:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋