i reallly like this guy!!!i am 17 and he is 21.but he takes me as a kiddo...i am confused...he has my number,...and he msgs me sayin "hi kiddo!!".... and at times "hey sugar" ..huh? ...n yes am considered prettty hot in his friends circle... but...he seems to be least bothred...what do i do TO GET HIM!!he knows that i like him..and he does find me attractive...plz gime tipssssss :((
2006-07-20 16:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think that u probably need 2 PROVE 2 him that ur not just a "kiddo" cuz then he'll just view u as a "kiddo" and wont take u seriously. I suggest u just kiss him, i guarantee u he will kiss u back if he finds u attractive!! if hes really weird and doesnt kiss some1 he finds attractive back, then just 4get it and move on.
2006-07-20 16:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I expect he's thinking you are too young for him. You can't catch him unless he wants to be caught by you. The best thing you can do is become friends with him. Sure, you may just have to stay at being "buddies"....but things have an amazing way of changing as one grows older and more mature. (inside mature, not physically, I mean...and I'm not implying that you're not mature either!)
At 17, chasing a more age mature guy is not going to make him notice you...not in the way you would like anyway. Becoming friends first is a good way to stay in his radar, even if you're not there in the way you would like. At least you are visible to him. Just be his friend...show him that you are mature but a fun person too. And don't be chasing him!
You never know...chemisty has a way of changing as time goes on. And if it doesn't...then at the very least, you've have a good friend in your life, who may introduce you to some other super nice guy. So it could be a win-win situation one day.
2006-07-20 23:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wise Wench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act naturally, and let nature take it's course. Dont be too anxious, it makes you look like you are desperate. You must have the goods, or the other guys wouldn't think you are hot. Be a challenge to him for a change, turn the tables on him, give him some of his own medicine, Try to be non-chalant. Garnet
2006-07-20 23:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys want Girl to make first move. Or may be is not interetsted in u. Try to be friends and when u go out give him a kiss on his chick and see does he like or no. The u can move forward. BEST OF LUCK
2006-07-20 23:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just grab him and plant one on him? You have a 50/50 chance he'll kiss you back. But then again....he may be waiting til you turn 18 .... legal age.
2006-07-20 23:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's this little trick I saw on TV one time. Well you get a crossword puzzle doesn't matter which one. You say " Hey can you help me with this, it says 'miss me miss me now you've got to _______' " then he'll finish the phrase by saying "kiss me". You say "don't mind if i do" then you kiss him however you want.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-20 23:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Adriana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kisssssssssssssss Himmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm and then you tell him that your sorry that you were a little compulsive and see if he likes it girl you know you have to yake some risks sometimes in your life : )
2006-07-20 23:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be backing off becaus elegally you are under age but the best thing to do is go natural put on some sexy kissable lip gloss and when your around him have nice purfume on and smile alot he soon wont be able to resist your charms
2006-07-20 23:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because of the age difference he probably only want's to be your friend.Let it stay that way till your of legal age.Be better for you both.
2006-07-20 23:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by mrimprovize59@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried kissing him?
HINT: tell him you have to tell him a secret, put your hand over your mouth like you were gonna tell him a secret and then when you are close just swoop in and kiss him.
hope this helps.
2006-07-20 23:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋