I looked at him wierd, because i though i knew him, and he got mad. my girlfriend and him were talking, and he said, he was a wrestler, a hockey player, and a skatboarder, and said he would kick my ***, and my girlfriend said that i would kick his ***, what should i do, without making myself look like a woose, or get into a fight with him?
2006-07-20 16:18:26 · 15 answers · asked by Shippo2wolf 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Oh, no!!! Yes, all about the "wrong look". You must be a teenager. You have a dilema my dear. Okay, first and foremost, try to have it get back to him that you thought you knew this guy and the "weird look" was a misunderstanding. Then tell your girlfriend to close her trap and tell her never, ever to tell another guy that again. That is really uncool.
Violence is not cool. Tell him that your girlfriend didn't know what she was talking about, it was a "big misunderstanding" and that you met nothing by it. Man to man, can usually have a good communication if they mention "what a crazy chick my girlfriend is". And he will probably agree that "women are nuts". Somethig like that.
It's a tricky spot to be in. I know. You don't want to lose face but you don't want to fight either, nor should you. Will HIV today and stuff, a fight with the wrong person with broken skin and blood, who knows. I had an ex boyfriend whose a fireman and he use to go on calls with cops for a while and he saw some really "bad stuff" that made him think about fighting. Try to talk yourself out of it Use phrases, "I have no issue with you" I thought you were so-in-so" "My girlfriend doesn't know what she is talking about". I knew a guy who was HUGE, and huge into body building and could easily kick anybody's ***, but he never would, even if it was warranteed. Why? B/c it ain't cool, that's why.
Young guys usally get crazy about this kind of stuff. Dont' do anything stupid. Avoid him and where he will be. Or, you better learn how to fight. All i know is if you don't want break your thumb, make sure its inside the fist. But, overall, just avoid the situation. Good luck and God Bless
2006-07-20 16:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with almost every answer you got. Yes, do what you can to calm him down, BUT even if you can't beat him up, he MUST know you are willing to fight!!
I lost a fight in high school cause the bully could fight (despite whta they say), but he never bothered me after that cause he got some respect, knowing i cared enough to protect myself, or try.
You don't have to win, in fact, you can lose, but you need to give him a CLEAR message (if you can't avoid his intimidation crap) that if u lose, he will pay for it.
He won't bother you again if he thinks you are crazy. Maybe you come back and take a baseball bat to his knees BEFORE he can see you. Let them call you a coward or whatever since it wasn't face to face. You'd lose face to face, you don't want that macho crap. Shorter or weaker guys have to fight dirty or cowardly.
Oh, by the way, I agree with the person who said dump the girl. She is immature. In fact if this guy will be out of your life after that, I agree with the others when they say walk away. Let him "win," or think he's dominant IF you won't see him again.
This girl admires fighting, which will get you in some deep crap.
If it were me, I'd say "I like you but you need to grow up. You have the gall to risk my life with some guy by fueling the fire? That's BS, go play your games with some other guy." If she calls you a wuss or something, you know that you wouldn't be a wuss If she was worth fighting for. Besides, it seems like SHE has the problem with the guy more than you do. Or the guy has the problem. You were the victim of the guy who just wants to fight to impress the girl and show dominance cuz he's an IDIOT and her cause she wants to see a fight.
Maybe you tell her "I'd beat your *** before I beat his"
Actually a guy accused me of looking at his girlfriend when I was at a gas station. I said "You have good taste" but I wanted to say, "I wouldn't let that thing suck me." I didn't say that cuz the guy looked tough.
2006-07-21 02:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont let him beat you up. Inform a teacher, give a date (if there is a planned 1) and make sure a teacher is nearby or if a specific date is planned... secretly tell a teacher to be around without any1 else knowing (so u dont look like a woose) and good luck with everything else. thats all I got.
2006-07-20 23:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to talk to him, for just 2 minutes.
AWAY from his buddies, that he is trying to impress, and away from your girlfriend, that he is also trying to impress.
Alone, with just you, he might be able to be reasoned with.
And explain to him, that you only looked at him because he looked like somebody you knew ,and/or was friends with long time ago, and you just thought he looked familiar.
And that, your girlfriend is a, Psychopath, and is always getting you into trouble.
Nobody will know the conversation, that went on, if you get him alone, and if he is any kind of man he will understand, if he is a jack off, then watch out for the sucker punch. (be carefull)
PS. Dump that girl, any girl that has no compassion to see you possibly hurt, probably does not give a rats a$$ about you.
I've been with the same type of woman, she tried to get me to fight all of her Ex-Boyfriends, because SHE had unresolved issues with them.
2006-07-20 23:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by two_skrus_luse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he confronts you tell him that you don't wish harm to come to either of you, and that you will NOT fight back if he decides to continue the assault. Tell him also, that if he beats you up anyway, then he will not have accomplished anything because you aren't going to fight, therefore all he will be doing is making himself look like a jerk.
There is no shame in not wanting to fight. I, myself, am a martial artist and I have no desire to fight anyone, and will do everything I can to avoid a fight. Fighting solves nothing and proves nothing. Anyone can be beaten given the proper circumstances.
2006-07-20 23:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by awarriorandapoet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road. Tell him that your girlfriend was out of line for speaking for you, and you have no real desire to fight him.
This takes a lot of courage and is way sexier than fighting him. Sheesh, what would you two even have to fight about?
2006-07-20 23:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by answer gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk to him first and reason with him, but some people are too stubborn for that and think that they need to solve stuff like that with senseless violence. I have always thought that violence was a last resort. Fighting doesn't really prove anything besides who can take more pain and dish it out too.
2006-07-20 23:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by tre_loc_dogg2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend, "baby, I can't fight him. It would be way to embarrassing for him and I'm just too nice of a guy." Or you could just kick his a s s. That might be fun too.
2006-07-20 23:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is best if she wants to instigate in da fight do you really think that she is da 1 4 u just walk away if you want 2 or kick his ***
2006-07-20 23:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥iiM jUsT mE..fAsHiOn FaNaTiC♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he can beat you up. Do you really want to hang out with a chick who's gonna write checks your butt can't cash? Dump the chick and move on.
2006-07-20 23:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Brand X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋