My best friend boyfriend is cheating on her.Should I tell her or just let her find out for herself?

Answer 1

I realize you already have alot of answers for this question, so I'm sorry in advance if my answer isn't helpful to you.
About 7 years ago my fiance and I were friends with another couple. Our male friend said to my fiance (also a male) he had something he wanted to tell him but made him swear he couldn't tell a soul (on his sons).
He then told my fiance he was seeing another woman.
Unfortunately, my fiance later told me and I became bound by his promise not to tell... His wife was our friend also.
A month later my fiance died so I didn't feel bound by the promise anymore. I told a friend we had in common and asked her to let our female friend know what her husband was doing.
Her and I later discussed the why's of not letting her know. She was hurt more than you can even imagine that she had friends that knew this thing and didn't tell her.
I am thankful we were able to work through that and are still friends today. But it taught me a valuable lesson: That is not a secret to keep.
If that were happening to you, wouldn't you want to be told?
I bet you say yes.
Then give your friend the respect of telling her. Just do it gently.
Good luck.

Answer 2

It depends on the type of person she is. If she's sensible and trusts you then it might be worth telling her in private only if you have been an eye witness to the cheating.

Sometimes girls feel embarrassed and take it out on you, but if she's a good friend she'll get over it.

Unless she is hiding under a rock somewhere, chances are she already suspects he is cheating, but hasn't come to terms with it yet.

If you decide not to tell her don't wait until she starts talking to share your information, that will only make her mad at you for not telling her sooner.

Answer 3

Since you say she is your best friend you def got to tell her, she will feel like you didn't do her justice in your friendship if you didn't and you knew and she found out!!! Just let her kno!!! She is your bestfriend and she will understand that you care about her and love her, if she doesn't believe you at first she is in denial, she will come around and thank you later!!! She might get crazy and stuff but don't worry she will thank you and love that you told her the truth!!!

Answer 4

If you tell her she won't believe you. You need to seduce him yourself, and capture it on your webcam. Then, show your friend the video. Feel free to share it with us as well.

Let me know how this works. If it doesn't go so well, I have some other ideas that might help ...

Answer 5

You should definitely tell her, don't watch her slowly get heartbroken. Make sure to tell her who you saw her boyfriend with if you know, or she might go into denial and not believe you because of how upsetting it can be to comprehend. Good luck.

Answer 6

Let her know, what kind of a friend would you be if you let her get played? Or think about it this way. . . . if she knew your bf was cheating would you want her to tell you?

Answer 7

try to talk to your best friend, and tell her that her boy friend is cheating her! if she don't believe you and mad at you,and still go on with he's boyfriend,there's nothing you can do,.
have a good talk & good luck to your bestfriend! have a nice day!!!!!

Answer 8

if you are the one who is cheating with the boyfriend then definitley tell her as soon as possible but come up the a good story with aliens in it.

Answer 9

Let her find out for herself.

Answer 10

of course u should tell her if she finds out that u knew the whole and you'll loose a best friend