Theres this guy who's been going out with this girl for two months. he says he's liked her for two years. But at first she was goin out with someone but when the relationship got rocky he interfered. I just met him a few weeks ago we haven't hung out much but I really like him. We always end up flirting a lot, but he does it to a certain level,because I think he feels guilty like he's cheating on his gf. We work together and I really like him, we talk about a lot of personal things and have a lot of the same interests. I want us to be more than freinds but I don't know waht to do or say. Please help?
2006-07-20 15:41:57 · 30 answers · asked by babigurl34 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he flirts with you being with another girl, he will definitely do it to you as well.
Move on to a man that will only be yours.
2006-07-20 15:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only choice for action you have is to approach him and let him know how you feel.
If he feels the same way, then you'll be able to start a new relationship. If he doesn't, then you need to figure out if you can live with just being friends with him.
Inaction, or not taking a chance at all, will just leave you wondering what could have been, instead of knowing where to go!
Good luck.
2006-07-20 22:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite a tough thing to deal with. I understand how you're feeling and how much it incredibly sucks. If you were to interfere with their relationship it just wouldn't be right. The only possible way to get this guy is to tell him how you feel (sum up the courage!) and let him decide how he wants to handle the situation (he's the one in the middle). Like I said before this is not an easy situation and it's gonna suck to put that pressure on him but it's the only thing you can do (that's morally correct anyway).
2006-07-20 22:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but I never mix business with pleasure, in other words, it's not a good thing, to date someone you work with, I have learned from experience, that it's not a good thing. I dated someone I worked with and something happened between the two of us and our relationship, ended on a bad note. It was hurtful, seeing him everyday and totally embarrassing, knowing other people, knew about our failed relationship. I'm happily married now, but it's a part of my past, that I wish, never happened. You might have better luck, but I say, find someone else, that isn't attached and don't assume his flirting means that he wants a relationship with you.
2006-07-20 22:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You barely know this man, he is so not worth fighting with his girlfriend over! I personally think that you should hold yourself to a certain moral standard when it comes to dating because how you behave when dating(or trying to date) someone determines what sort of person you will end up with. So if you are going around breaking people up you more then likely end up with men that stray from the relationship. Find someone else, someone single, you'll get over him.
2006-07-20 22:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K gurl...i got the same thing going on here...my best friend is a guy...he's older than me...and we like eachother (right now, as friends). We don't EVEN work together...but he does have a gf. He hardly ever talks about her to me or anyone else (as it seems). I'd just let him be. But till then, just hang and be friends...eventually you will get what you wished for...him breaking up with his gf and getting with you. He's more like your soul mate...mine is my soul mate...my missing peice to my puzzle...the one i have been looking for...for like 8 years. I have liked him forever. So, let him date her...eventually you'll get him when he breaks up wit her. Just sit back and chill out till then...Im doing that...1 more year and im 18...I might get date him too!!!
2006-07-20 22:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what goes around comes around, don't interfere. How would you like it if some1 tried 2 take away ur bf??? Even though he practically did that with his gf, two wrongs dont make a right. I know u like him and everything, but I suggest u not do anything until he brakes up with his gf. Dont make him cheat...thats just awful. =[
2006-07-20 22:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than try to break them up, just be friendly. He knows you like him. If his other relationship goes south then you'll probably be next in line.
If you're thinking of busting them up, think again. Is this what you want others to do with your relationships?
2006-07-20 22:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the relationship alone. Put yourself in the girls shoes. Would you like it if someone was moving in on your guy? Probably not. Let their new relationship develop and see what happens.
2006-07-20 22:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back away, because you don't want to be the reason they break up. How would you feel if you were that girlfriend and the she tried to break you two up. If the tables were turned. Stay his friend, your turn will come.
2006-07-20 22:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jade Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋