i broke up with my bf a while ago but didnt get a response until today..and getting that response just made me hurt even more inside...why does it still hurt so much???
2006-07-20 15:38:07 · 18 answers · asked by the quiet one 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke it off cuz we didnt get to talk alot as we were in a long distance relationship
2006-07-20 15:41:55 · update #1
was breaking up with him a mistake???
2006-07-20 16:49:49 · update #2
now im doubting the breakup....
2006-07-20 17:20:12 · update #3
It wasn't final until then. It was like the door slamming in your face. I've been there. It'll hurt a while, I'm sorry to say. Bake some cookies and read a book.
2006-07-20 15:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa420 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Part of ending a relationship is learning from it. Finding all the negative things about the bf enables you to move on easier. Make a list of things you do not want to fall for again. When moving on look for the guy that has the qualities the last guy laked. Do not dwell in the past. That is over and so you need to look to the future and plan the next relationship. Pick places you want to go and things to do that were not done before. That will block out memories. Good luck.
2006-07-20 22:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the pain of love. My sweetie. It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved". As you mature you experience different types of love in differing intensity. All in their separate compartments. There will remain a particular friendship which is always alive borne out of past reciprocal intensity of loving - not just sexing but actual loving by holding hands, not speaking but being near each other. Complementing each other, respecting each other, ultimately, knowing that your partner loves you and your partner knows that you love him. You freely shows your love my touching or admiring by steering at the partner, as if in a trance. Honey that is luuuuve. It hurts no hell, but it was so good when it was good. Time - honey - is a great healer.
2006-07-20 22:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should hang out with ur friends.And look 4 a different bf.Just try to stay away from the thing that u two and try not to think about him.I am going though the same thing but I got a different bf and it is really helping me a lot.Just don't hurt ur self or try to kill urself.Beleve me it does not help.It just makes it wrost.
2006-07-20 22:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by a girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me breaking up is never easy, but we have to be strong and deal with the pain....Try to keep yourself busy and to think less, if you keep thinking and thinking you're going to drive yourself crazy! I know it's not easy to forget someone we love but you have to try your best and let go, moving on is never easy but it isn't impossible either! Good Luck
2006-07-20 22:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is your best friend now. It's cliché but it's true. Take good care of yourself, alllow yourself to cry.. you will go through different phases and you will get out of it stronger and better than ever. Good luck to you.
2006-07-20 22:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never work... it shouldn't hurt... just forget about it and get over it...
2006-07-20 23:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always will hurt at first. Just give it some time.
2006-07-20 22:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone had a piece of your heart, and it is gonna hurt until someone new fills the spot!!!!
2006-07-20 22:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! you still have strong feelings for him!! Its a emotional thing! It takes time to let it go!
2006-07-20 22:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋