Whenever I say something wrong or stupid, she punches me. It's getting worse every time. Last night she punched me in the face and broke my nose and laughed about it. I laughed too because I was scared. But I really want her to stop. I don't know how to tell her though because she might hit me if I threaten to get the police involved.
2006-07-20 15:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH ****! SHE FOUND OUT I WAS ON YAHOO ANSWERS ABOU THIS. SHES PISSED. IM LOCKED IN MY ROOM RIGHT NOW, I DONT HAVE A PHONE TO CALL THE COPS. BUT SHE SAYS SHES GONAN BREAK MY ARMS WHEN SHE BREAKS THE DOOR DOWN. HEEEEEEELP!
2006-07-20 15:36:34 · update #1
LMAO. Boy oh boy and i do mean BOY, lol. You gotta be a man which require two things. FIrst of all, you must please a woman to have one. If she is punching you, she feels that she can train you to her satisfaction. That sounds f'd up but its a good indicator of what she likes, so u must pay attention to her. She hits you to make a boundaries and let you recognize her preferences. ALthough she could do it with words she has got addicted to power and control with "girl-bullying" where her gender is the only thing from getting her azzbeat. Collect that data on her preference and use it to your advantage, then she'll be listening to you. Second, you must be a man and not take **** as a boy. Don't laugh it off, there is a time to be real and serious without being angry nor silly. You should of told her that was disrespectful or she is crossing the line while being in a serious mood. If you play all the time then yes you will be played yourself eventually. Try to establish a serious side. I tell folks to keep their hands out my face or when playing goes to far that we need to chill out. She knows that there needs to be control in the relationship but you let her have it. Dont be a wuss and get control. YOU can do this by acting very sweet, very concerned, or pay attention to her more. Do any of these things unexpectingly and you will win ya spot back. Take it easy and let her teach ya a few things.
2006-07-20 15:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think you should stop exaggerating. I don't think she broke your nose, that's a little extreme. I don't think anyone would hit anyone that hard just because they said something stupid. Now, I believe she hit you though, but I don't believe she broke your nose.
Ok, now I have to say this...I used to be bad for slapping my boyfriend when we'd play around. It wouldn't be really hard but we'd be like play wrestling and I'd slap him and he told me one day that he didn't like it, so I stopped. I didn't know it bothered him, so I didn't know not to do it. After he told me, I never did it again. So maybe you should just tell her to stop. And if she doesn't, then get rid of her.
2006-07-20 15:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well buddy, if the roles were reversed she would have brought Domestic violence charges on you so I guess when in Rome.
Yes even males can be victims of Domestic V.
Do what you do!
2006-07-20 15:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is violence, haven't you heard hit me once shame on you , hit me twice and shame on me...do something about it. As long as you tolerate it, it will continue. Call the cops and be glad you are rid of her! She needs some serious anger management!
2006-07-20 15:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man. if she hit you and broke ur nose shes not a worthy girl friend. honestly if i were u i would dump her before something worse happens. JUMP OUT A WINDOW!!!
2006-07-20 15:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by soccerchick_246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you feel you are in a physically abusive relationship and need to take a time out to recover from your wounds...and tell her in an email or text message...who knows what she will do to you if you do it in person. You should be scared!
2006-07-20 15:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever have the guts to tell her to stop hitting you maybe she will understand or just breakup with her
2006-07-20 15:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥~*Reyna~*♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..that's why she keeps hitting you..she had this idea that you'll just gonna ignore it and just laugh even though it really cause you pain..by the way, you're kind though..maybe you just love her so much.;c
2006-07-20 15:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Reigne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding me. she actually hit you and broke your nose? You so need to get rid of her she is abusing you.
2006-07-20 15:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by alysha_graney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punch her in the face and hard...that'll teach her.
2006-07-20 15:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋