How can I be a better Pagan?

Question

Serious answers only please. No hating, no bashing, no attempts at converting me please.

I mean, how can I set a positive example for the people of my religion? Can anyone give me any ideas or examples?

Answer 1

Lilbitadevil hit the nail on the head. .

I’m going to throw my two cents in.

From my experience Pagans tend to fall in three broad camps. The first are those that focus on the practical meat and potatoes stuff (volunteer work, promoting ecological issues, etc). The second are those that work the spiritual/metaphysical aspects (meditation and ritual work). The third are those who are into it because they think it’s cool and rebellious. They want to be special and to freak people out.

If you fall into the third camp, get over yourself and start working on either one of the first two issues. Develop a spiritual life or get active in serving.

If you find yourself predominantly in one of the first two groups, work towards striking a balance between the two. If you do all kinds of volunteer work start doing more introspection. Develop your mediation, focus and energy raising skills. Start working with the Tarot or Runes. If you’re more the contemplative type get out and work at a homeless shelter, or get involved in ecological stuff.

A couple of other things to think about:

I’ve known many Pagans who know almost nothing about nature. Sure they’ve memorized the meaning of every card in three different Tarot decks and know the properties to 12 dozen different gem stones but they are totally ill at ease out in good old Mother Nature. Isn’t she supposed to be our primary teacher? Do you spend any time outside? Do you garden? Go for hikes? Do you know the native plants in your area? Have you watched the sun rise recently or taken a long walk under the full moon to just feel her energy. Have you closed your eyes and listened to a rain storm or a wind storm? She has a lot to teach and it can be hard to remember to take the time to listen to her.

How is the balance in your life?

Mental: Are you learning new things? Do you take any time to study? When was the last time you read something that took some work?

Spiritual: Do you spend time every day getting in tune with your higher self? How is your relationship with the Goddess and God?

Physical: Are you taking care of your physical body? How is your diet? What about getting physical exercise?

Anyway, these are just a couple things to think about.

Pax,
Pablito

Answer 2

This sounds kinda mean, but do whatever you have time to do. Ask the God and Goddess to bless you and thank them for watching over you. If you feel that you are losing your faith, I suggest casting a circle, and meditate to the God and Goddess. Think about what's important to you and how you can be a better Pagan (and person!). Do what you feels right. If not, try getting in tune with nature more by walking through the woods or meditating there.

Good luck and Blessed Be! )O(

Answer 3

It appears that you must be having difficulty in keeping with your pagan belief system. I realize how difficult it is to believe that the whole entire universe is an act of random chaos and that humanity evolved from a soup pond. It's enough to drive a good pagan to the steps of the local church. I recommend that you go to pagan school and study real hard and someday you might be better at believing in nothing.

Answer 4

How do you mean? Are there tenets of the religion which you are lax about following? That question is so vague that it is almost impossible to give a response. Perhaps you are having doubts about the religion itself, thus making you not a good pagan. This question is so multi-faceted it is impossible to answer based on one sentence.

Answer 5

I've got close friends who are pagans, and what makes them so immensely likable is their friendliness and sense of humor. I respect them for their intellect and their family values.

I knew another family of pagans that I did not respect. The parents were not involved with their children, they drank too much, they were just weird and angry. Seemed to have some kind of point to make against society.

The pagans that I respect aren't pagans to p1ss off their parents--- they're pagans because they find divinity in nature.

Answer 6

Well, for starters, try meditating. Ask the Goddess for guidance in your life. Prayer is also good, look to strengthen your relationship with the Goddess and the God.

Following the Pagan path isn't just a way of life, it is a religion. In Wicca, there are principles that you can apply to your daily life:

Harm none...rise above the anger, jealouse, and hatred and other destructive emotions.
Reincarnation reminds us that we have more than one chance at life.
Karma...this allied with Harm None. Additionally, we can see how good actions are in themselves acts of spirituality.
Magic...reminds us that we do, indeed, have control over our lives.
Thought...teaches us that thoughts are things;that is, thoughts generate and release energy and, if repeated with intent, can be powerful sources of energy.
Earth stewardship...care for our Earth. Express your love and concern for our planet through recycling, planting a tree, tending gardens, donating to ecological causes and such.

And remember, you have the continuous presence of the Goddess and God in your life. They are with us and within us.
Feel free to msg me if you want to talk more with another Pagan.

Blessed be and may the Goddess guide you my sister.

Answer 7

Well, I'd say just work at being a better person. It doesn't really matter in that case what religion you are. I figure if you work at being a better person, you work at being a better Pagan.

Answer 8

Mainly be yourself. If you are a good person inside you will be a good Pagan. Your faith is an extension of you.

Answer 9

Is dat anyting lik paypal? Dey need ta git betr. Cee whut dair doin.

Answer 10

I think Pixie is right. Always remember that the first rule is "harm none" try to do that in every respect (emotionally and physically) and I think you'll be on the right path.