Ok, here is my dilima. Now the one and only girl i have ever loved has recently just come back into my life. The problem being that she is currently married and has two beautiful children. She and her husband are seeming to have a few problems and well i am so anxious to get back with her and i think she wants it to. Now, i know that it is a sin to covet thy neighbors wife but i am almost sure that we both belong together and the only reason we are not is because of him. What should i do? Do i sit back and let nature take its course or do i express my feelings to her. Please someone help me.
2006-07-20 15:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by Gewbs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truly truly love her - not just sexually - you will put on the act of your life in helping her to rebuild with her husband that which is fading, depending on circumstances. She had chosen him to be her husband and because of your love for her you are going to be her 'best friend' but be respectful at all times regardless how emotions are rising. Your mission is to be her guardian angel. You know her, you both have an intimate past. Just being in her presence will have to suffice, right now. Any more and you will be taking advantage of her vulnerability, and in fair conscience is that what you really think of her? Furthermore, we all go through our transitional stages. She has been married and had children. You have not. I presume.? So the carefree sweetheart you knew and cherished has now become a potential divorcee with children and you? So where are you both going to start from if she divorces. You an instant father? I don't know. Give this some thinking.
2006-07-20 15:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was really meant for you two to be together she would have married you and those beautiful children would be yours. Once a woman is married, divorced i don't mess with them no matter how hot they are or my feelings for her at one time before she was married.
Remember it is a woman that choose a man and not us men. The sooner we get this into our heads the better it will be for us and our pockets and peace of mind. She made her choice as there was some thing about this guy that she chose him over you if you played your cards rights with her..
As they say in Court TV ( There is two sides to Every Story and then there is the truth. )
I liked a girl once and when the time came she got pregnant and married another guy. She still wanted to play and behave as if she is a single person and i just left her a lone. I respect God's Law were marriage is concern and stay away from them as a married woman brings death to her lovers as well as putting a blight on your life.
Be smart, by not letting this woman drag you into her mess as she made her choice and she will have to go through this alone.. Don't let her promise of rewarding you with sex etc for you to ruin your peace of mind and well being over some woman that is just using you.
2006-07-20 15:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give suttle hints, but I think you should sit back and let things happen. If yall are meant for eachother itll happen but dont completly butt in and take another mans wife. Let her make this decision on her own. You wouldn't want another man to take your wife now would you?
2006-07-20 15:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break them up, someday she (or her children) will resent you badly. Pray over it. If it's meant to be it will. In the meantime, sit back and take some cold showers. Good Luck
2006-07-20 15:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋