im really shy and quiet guys like me and stuff its just that im too shy. i dnt kno how to change. they say im pretty and have a sexy body but its the quieeness and the award silence that gets in tha way how should i change
2006-07-20 15:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be confident in yourself and appear approachable and men will see you
2006-07-20 15:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by nurseholly_1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take baby steps. If a guy compliements you, of course say thank you. Then in return compliement him. You can then ask all the common ?'s (Ie. What's your name, how's your day going, so what are you doing here, what do you think of...) These are a few ice breakers to get the conversation rolling. Need anymore help after that, contact me.
2006-07-20 22:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be you always. Never act lilke anyone to "get guys" or get attention. The right man for you will be a still, gentle, strong man, whose eyes will attracted to your soul and will only ssee your body as the perfect accent to the splendid voice from deep within your soul.
2006-07-20 22:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pretty simple, they notice anyone that they find attractive. However, if you are indeed too quiet then they might think you are not interested. So, ask them about themselves, ppl can always talk of themselves a lot.
2006-07-20 22:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by I77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to overcome the shyness. It might be endearing at first, but later on it gets to be a burden. (Trust me. I know.) Read about "immersion" techniques to overcome shyness. It's where you do things you'd never ever do, and do them regularly so you can break the fear of these things. Good luck!
2006-07-20 22:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become more comfertable in your surroundings, instead of hiding in the corner, go out and be out going. I have lots of guys that like me, for me, so be you but a little louder so people notice you and you will have the guys all over you :-)
2006-07-20 22:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run around and squawk like a chicken
2006-07-20 22:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by joker45693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! dont try to act like someone ur not. and if ur thinking bout changing... dont, just add a lil something!
2006-07-20 22:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by RyssaLynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere where you are not known to be shy... and pretend to be an outgoing person.... pretend pretend pretend... eventually you will become used to be outgoing and it will form into a new personality. good luck
2006-07-20 22:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by gaagaala27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have know idea girl
2006-07-20 22:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by pammypiano56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋