with her, we met online, and told me that she paid no attention to him at all, yet would still try to work it out for the sake of the kids. But he didn't seem interesnted in working it out with her,,we met, the sparkes and chemistery was unbelieveable, but,,,,when his ex found out, she put on the water work, and said she'd change, and he went back..I was heart broken, but i knew that he felt he needed to do it,,,for months we e-mailed, and things never changed but he was determined. We stopped talked for about 6 months, and there has been little change, he moved out for a while, she asked him to come back...he did. We are talking agian now, I know he feels something for me, he thinks about me, and said if it wasn't for the kids we'd be together now. I think he truely believes he will lose the relationship he has with his kids if he leaves, and they mean everything to him....I can't let him go, even though i know I'll never be with him....what can I do?
2006-07-20 14:56:10 · 4 answers · asked by smt1967 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on with your life, there's nothing else you can do.
2006-07-20 15:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by teresa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to decide what he wants. Be with you and loose the kids, or be without you and have the kids. As for you, end it and move on. No sense wallowing in your sorrow. If he wants you, he'll let you know. Stop the collaborating.
2006-07-20 22:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by skwsith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you have been through this. I know how hard this can be for him because I have been through the same thing. It is hard leaving. Don't let him go. If you love him and he loves you....you will find a way.
2006-07-20 22:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by dbyates 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, he has too many problems and is no where close to solving any of them.
2006-07-20 22:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋