my mom can get mad very easily, about ANYTHING little. she is never in a good mood, she doesnt have sense of humor. she hurts my feelings alot. she has a habit of yelling which i hate. i dont know what to do cuz this is really annoying, and i cant wait to get out. what do i do, should i talk to her or how do i handle it?
2006-07-20 14:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think your mom must be very frustrated in things that happen in her life that you weren't aware. As a child perhaps you should give her a hug and put your hands over her shoulder, sit her down over a cup of tea and talk to her to find out exactly where went wrong. Tell her directly how you have felt about her odd behaviour recently and ask her whether she needs help. Ask her whether if it is you who have been giving her problem and make her to become like that.......tell her you will make good whatever faults that you have created to make her happy again. With all these conversation your mom will realize her own frustrations and it will help her to control her emotions better.
2006-07-20 14:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 3⤋
I know how you feel. I grew up in a home like that too. It got to where I started talking to counselors and seeking advice. It gave me the courage to talk to my mother and let her know that she was hurting me.
Your mother is angry for a reason. I do not know why. I learned that my mother had a lot of anger inside of her because of an abusive past. She also had a hormone definciency that was causing severe irritibility.
Talking to my mom was scary, but I knew that if I didn't speak up I would be living in misery.
My mom and I are very close now. I think she regrets the way she was during my childhood.
2006-07-20 21:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention your dad. If he is not in the house your mom is probably the only support for the family. Maybe she is depressed. Try to understand. I know its hurtful when parents get angry with us they sometimes say thing that they really don't mean and when they calm down they are usually ashamed hope fully they apologize. You should by all means talk to her about it but, don't attack her or make her feel as if she is being attacked Just say something like ( mom, sometimes when you get angry you really hurt my feelings and make me feel so bad about my self" If she is a "witch" try speaking to your guidance counselor at school.
2006-07-20 21:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you can do.. all you have to do is listen to your mother, believe if she tells you something you don't like, you shouldn't get mad, mothers have instincts and they know what's best for us. However, you disagree with me then later on confront the consequences and you'll remember what I told you. Even though you don't like your mom, get angry at her, and can't stand her, love her as much as you can because God eill appreciate what you do for her! She may not treat you like you want, but when ever you do something, do it for God, talk to god, he will definitely help you and most of all restore freindship between you and your mom! good luck and remember God is the solution for any problem in life!
2006-07-20 21:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please sit down and talk with your mother...you don't say how old you are, but keeping the lines of communication open is a plus in any relationship. Does your mother work? She could be overburdened and taking it out on you...not intentionally...Moms need some down time too...ask her what can you do to make things better.
2006-07-20 21:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Just try to avoid any situation that might lead to any arguments. Try talking to her (even though it won't help), but let her know how you feel if it continues just try to think positive thoughts, like making sure you continue with working hard to get the hell outta there
2006-07-20 21:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Patriece C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe you are in a better state of mind, be patient and try to understand what and why it is happening! Either way, she is your mother. If you are a better person, the responsibility is on you to help her. I hope you do, 'cause it would surely do you both good.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 21:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by iikozen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's bothering her. Or put her on prozac :)
Just spend a mother/daughter day at the park, doing a picnic or something. Then talk it out there.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 21:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be patient and try to win the heart of your mom also consult a psychologist.!
2006-07-20 22:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by goodtooba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a therapist w/her or on your own and learn how to deal w/her. sucky but she won't change.
2006-07-20 21:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋