this friend is more like my bff.. she told me that she loves him and that hes hers even though hes my bf... she siad that shes gonna get him....... what do i do.. hes mine
2006-07-20 14:30:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go.. you'll get someone better.... if she wants him let her have him...
2006-07-20 14:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by landonsis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's really nothing you can do about the actions of others.
Stop confiding in her and discussing anything that has to do with your boyfriend. The less she knows the less she can use against you if she gets that desperate.
In the meantime continue to communicate with your boyfriend and be the best girlfriend you can be. Don't tell him your concerns about your so called friend, that will only make you look insecure and he might get big headed and start tripping.
If he is a good bf and he really likes you, he will pay your so-called friend no-mind.
Sounds like she is jealous of your relationship and she wants you to feel miserable like she is. Too bad she can't get her a man of her own.
Silently put her at a distance, and if she is bold enough to ask about your bf just change the subject or say "I don't know" . She'll get tired of asking and then she'll try to start gossiping to get you to talk, but keep cutting her short no matter what she says.
Most importantly, don't let her know how much this bothers you. Don't let her have that control over you.
If your bf falls for the bait let them both kiss your @ss. What goes around goes around. Life is too short for drama!
2006-07-20 14:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isnt your friend then. Gosh
YOu need better friends.
I had an experience like this. I feel for my firends bf. I kept it to myself. After they broke up. He called and asked me out and because she was my best friend I told him I would have to speak with her, she is my best friend I didn't want to hurt her. I called her and she graciously gave me her blessing. 40 years later she is still one of my best friends- she is on east coast and I am on the west coast.
Keep the guy, get rid of the girl. Show her this email and tell her that you really need quality friends in your life. Then say.....bye bye
2006-07-20 14:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, i began reading this question and thot, it potential ur so f*cking fortunate to have a guy like that. yet then i observed u were 12, and thot, guy, thisll b ovr quickly. center schoolis complicated, dont start up focusing on a unmarried guy till like, center of seven/start up of 8. get to attraction to close some skill bfs and stuff. ur thanks to youthful to get severe. my first severe bf became from jan.-march, and that i became 14. so screw the middle college 'drama'. get ovr it
2016-12-02 00:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is not a friend. I suggest you treat her as an enemy and keep your eye on both of them. I would withdraw from any sort of friendship with her as she is a snake. I would concentrate on your relationship and making new friends who don't want to steal your boyfriend. That having been said... if she can get him, he wasn't the top to your pot after all.
2006-07-20 14:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're about high school age. Things change faster than you can believe. By the time you're 30 , and someone showed you this, either you wouldn't remember it or you'd wonder what you were thinking.
2006-07-20 14:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jadzia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth loosing ur best friend over a guy but if she can't understand u then maybe she's not such a good friend.U had him first.Just do what u feel is right.Good luck! :D
2006-07-20 14:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god! ur friend sounds so high school. but hey, he's ur bf so dont worry. u dont have to do anything. she can do whatever she wants. he loves u so it wont make a difference. oh and stop calling this girl ur friend!
2006-07-20 14:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anushka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging out with your bff cause if they really was a friend they wouldnt wont your man so if he love you he want want her any way so tell your boy friend and see what he say
2006-07-20 14:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, stop calling her your friend. She just as well told you she wasn't your friend. If she can get him from you then he wasn't yours in the first place and you are better off without him.
2006-07-20 14:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut her eyes out then spit salt into her brain through the hole. call her a ****** whore then cut here ears off. this away you are the last thing she sees and hears
2006-07-20 14:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋