My best friend and me both have g/f and the 4 of us spend a lot of time together. My g/f is pretty but not sexy. His is sexy but not as pretty. His g/f flirts with me now and then and she knows she gets me going .Sometimes I almost want to go for it. I fanticise about her and masterbate to thoughts of her.I have dreams about having sex with her and even think of her when I make love to my g/f so is this cheating ?? I can't stay away from her without staying away from my best friend so that is not an option.I am starting to feel guilty.I am 26years old.Is it cheating and what do I do?
2006-07-20 14:25:57 · 34 answers · asked by irishlad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go back to school. Take a class in:
1. Spelling
2. English
3. Ethics
4. Morality!
They don't have those in Special Ed. do they?
2006-07-20 14:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by motherpeanutbutterbutinsky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, DON'T listen to whatever "supersuck14" said, because it's BS!
You need to analyze your relationship with your current gf. And your situation with your best friends gf needs to be brought to the attention of your best friend because it's very wrong on his gf's part to flirt with you in the first place.
And it's obvious that you really don't have feelings for your gf anymore b/c you're thining about other women while your f******* her.
So maybe you should take a break from your gf for a while, and just test the waters. Try and keep yourself busy from thinking about your best friends gf.
This is not cheating, your just fantisizing and there's nothing wrong with that. Everybody fantasizes.
Hope that helps, and everything works out!
=]
P.S.: You don't need a sexy gf to be happy, as long as you have a good relationship with her.
2006-07-20 14:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by ♣ ỉη ץ٥ڵ ♣ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn boy. she's got you sprung! LoL.
this is a tough one, but I would try to not spend so much time with her. get out of the house with your girl and do something away from your bestfriend and his honey.
One on one time with your girl would do you alot of good. sounds like you too have some rebuilding to do.
as far as whether or not you are cheating yet, I would say no. however, it's still not fair to your girl that you are thinking about the other chick.
If you go for it... you better make sure that it would be worth losing everyone
2006-07-20 14:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should back off and stick with your own girlfriend. You should feel guilty - what the hell is sexy vs. pretty anyway? At your age you should be judging your relationship on deeper levels. You're obviously only interested in what's on the surface. You are too immature to be with anyone. Oh, and you should learn to spell too: it's fantasize, not fantacise.
2006-07-20 14:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's not cheating, but it's not good either. You got to get your mind preoccupied on something else when you are around them, otherwise it'll be overwhelming. I'd say spend a little less time with the 2 for them, but don't completely cut them off. Go back to your g/f and remind yourself of the quailities you found attractive in her and explore it further with her. Good luck. :)
2006-07-20 14:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a c0ck-teaser. Do not be alone with the teaser, she's either intent on getting you in trouble or you have an overactive imagination.
Don't go there, 4 people will be hurt and you will regret it.
Friends are harder to come by, the older you get.
2006-07-20 14:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not cheating. Relax...its just a phase.... And as far as what to do...try to look at your own g/f and find what attracted you to her in the first place...and try to not feel guilty for thinking about her when having sex, or masturbating. Its natural! Would you feel guilty if you were thinking of Lindsay Lohan?? No, probably not...so don't beat yourself over it. lol pardon the pun..lol
2006-07-20 14:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy Bch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not cheating, but if your mate found out he would go wild im sure! You cant break the best friend code dude.. Your friend is worth more then a girl
"Girlfriends/boyfriends come and go, but friends.. they last forever"
2006-07-20 14:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to control yourself. Try to focus more on your girlfriend and spend less time with your other friends. Go on some romantic dates and try to get to know her (the gf) better.
2006-07-20 14:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okkkk...uhmmm I think it went a bit too far there, that when you're making love to your gf your thiniking about another woman....if you love your gf then I'd suggest that you tell your best friend's GF to respect your personal space and stop flirting w/ you like that. She is guilty too by turning you on like that...
2006-07-20 14:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋