my friend hv lots of chatmate but recently she told me that this really cute chatm8 of her want her to be his GF online.she is already engage and i can tell that they really love each other.is it ok to hv a relationship w/ another man although its just online and it is impossible for them to meet personally bcoz they came frm diff. part of the globe?plz help. ..
2006-07-20 14:16:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really loves and cares for you and is engaged, she does't need to be someone's online GF. Although I see nothing wrong with chatmates, when it starts to interfere with your personal relationship, then I would say there is definitely a problem. She has to realize what her priorities and responsibilities are in a true and meaningful relationship.
2006-07-20 14:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by skwsith 2 · 11⤊ 4⤋
First of all Obviously your friend can't really be that in love or that engaged. Reson being regaredless if it's a online or not. Would your friend be okay with it if her fiancee was doing the same thing? And how would she/he feel? Marriage is made of total Love,[Trust] Honesty and Respect. If Your friend is doing this now and he/she isn't married yet. Can you imagine What your friend would be doing if he or she was married already. She really needs to ask her self is she really ready for marriage at all?Hope this helps.Let me know how it goes.
2006-07-20 14:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by lizaprz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK because love and fidelity and relationships occur in the mind. If her mind is on someone else, she is being unfaithful. Not a good sign so early in their relationship and a possible indicator that she isn't yet ready. Talk some sense into her!
2006-07-20 14:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY She has a bf and he exist in this world, Well the one online well he does not exist even if she thinks it does. Age may have a part in this. If she is young then she may not care what happens but if this is an older person then well grow up and smell the coffee. Online internet stuff is just stuff and well DOESN'T EXSIST....PERIOD IT IS ALL CRAP
2006-07-20 14:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by kimber69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is WRONG to connect with a guy online. It will demish her intimacy with the guy she is engaged to.
Would she like a woman that he is connected to as an online girlfriend.
It just isn't right on so many levels
2006-07-20 14:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not ok. She should not be engaged if she could have feelings like that for someone else. Also, to be in a "relationship" over the internet is strange.
2006-07-20 14:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are engaged you want the feeling to be needed. it is good for her to hv that, so she can realize that she wouldn't like her fiancee doing that. That's like cheating. ;(
2006-07-20 14:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. i would consider this as unfaithful. Although it's on-line, It's like having a long distance relationship.
2006-07-20 14:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lots of online friends and that's all they are...chat buddies. If that's all she's gonna do, and her BF is cool with it, it's ok., but that's the main question...how does the BF feel about it?
2006-07-20 14:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hotpants took the words out of my mouth, but one more vote for that side.
2006-07-20 14:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Gydar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋