I just feel numb. I lost the love of my life about 7 years ago and I haven't been interested in anyone. He messed me up pretty good. Took me years to get over it. Any suggestions?
...and NO, I will not turn gay!!
2006-07-20 14:14:03 · 10 answers · asked by Notnadia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to just let it happen, find the right guy who will make you forget all the bad stuff. There is someone out there right now waiting to meet you and make your life wonderfull.
2006-07-20 14:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got messed up pretty bad in my last relationship as well, and ditto on the whole not being attracted to other guys thing, at least for awhile. After a few months, I decided to give dating another try, and I think I'm getting better now, because my current boyfriend has been kind enough not to push me to make it too serious since he knows that I'm still a bit upset after being hurt so badly.
I think that keeping it light is the key, because if you jump into a serious relationship too fast, it will be too overwhelming, and you'll find yourself pushing him away.
However, I think that there is one more thing that you need to consider first; you can't make another person happy in a relationship if you're not happy first on your own, so if you're just thinking of dating because you're depressed or something, I'd consider taking up a new hobby instead, and once THAT makes you happy, who knows? Maybe you'll meet someone attractive that way instead!
2006-07-20 21:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Arianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest seeing a therapist. It is good to talk about yourself and it helps you to understand what is keeping you tied to a relationship that is 7 years in your past. You will fall in love again when you have room in your heart for someone else. Good Luck to you.
2006-07-20 21:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_soul_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not one to talk, cause I can't see any woman comparing to the one I really want and can't be with, buuut yes I think you'll find someone. Date as much as possible, but have fun with it. Don't treat every situation as if you're looking for your life partner. Treat them as a friend that you're just going out with, and you'll find that person that makes you happy.
2006-07-20 21:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Derrrr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely... and the answer to this is psychological, believe it or not, you have your mind stuck on him and ever since he left you you couldnt let go. See a psychologist and dont be afraid.. they will coach you through this problem better then anybody on this forum.. and if you dont want to go to one then all youre gonna hear here is to get over him and start to go clubbing or look for someone else
2006-07-20 21:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by mariusz360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out have sex with someone. Party it up. You only live once.
2006-07-20 21:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by John Archer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt the one for you. BUT THERE IS ONE FOR YOU. Just get out there and show your stuff
2006-07-20 21:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by advice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try then the right guy will come
2006-07-20 21:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll eventually move on...but if u truley still love him....tell him if u can
2006-07-20 21:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by {the heronie's secret} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-20 21:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by annaxoxoxo55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋