I have strong feelings for my brothers wife, I cant stop thinking about her. I get wood everytime I am around her. She is the women of my dreams. I dream about her every night. I know it was ment to be. should I let the love of my life get away or should I pursue what I know should be?
2006-07-20 14:12:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-20 14:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by bosslady17872 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must get over this feeling. You can feel brother-sisterly love but not "day dreaming" about this love affair as she is your brother's wife. Perhaps you should think about what will happen if you are in your brother's position and he has secretly fallen in love with your wife........you will be angry or even ends up with a big fight thus break up your brotherhood. Your feelings is extremely unhealthy, so please divert your mind whenever such feelings crops up. One way is to find a girlfriend of your own.
2006-07-20 14:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me clear something up for you that you're completely unaware of. Don't worry, it's not mean spirited!!! THis is meant to enlighten you.
You're not really in love. I know,,,,, you're saying "oh hell yeah I am..." but you're not. This is a case of validation. Something about you fears going out and getting your own woman. Something is telling you that you're not good enough so the fact that you're sister in law is nice to you by default, you're taking it to mean something else. I think the issues here are with your brother and they probably go WAY back. It might have been a struggle for attention, love and affection from your parents and now something feels similar to that such as a woman who is loving him and giving him affection. This is deep, i know but it requires you to do some deep thinking that IS NOT about how much you want to be with her. You need to think about being responsible and respecting other people's choices. THey have chosen to be together and you're going to make a huge *** of yourself if you tell her.
If for ANY reason you think she feels the same, than she is grotesque in leading a man on to the point of marriage and then being skanky enough to fall for his own brother. That's serious baggage right there.
Just realize that you have plenty to offer to a woman and there are plenty of beautiful, deserving women out there waiting for you to wine and dine them.
2006-07-20 14:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is sturdy in any variety. Adam ate the apple eve only bugged him to do it both responsible and both punished for that and no they don't seem to be the reason for sin the devil changed into by using telling us some thing which changed into no longer actual and they beleived him even however God under no circumstances confirmed any information for to make Adam and Eve to believe the devil they only did. The start of sin, it truly is doubt in Gods ability and word with none information. And human beings were doing it seeing that. we are born into sin. does no longer make us undesirable or evil, only Human. you want a ideal international all of us favor to end sinning a decision we each and every ought to make. We keep sinning then this international is the out come of it. he's not punishing us we punishing ourselves it only the way it fairly works. equivalent to status interior the rain we get moist no longer because God is going round say your interior the rain subsequently i make you moist. It only the organic out come from status interior the rain. some thing with sinning and under no circumstances sinning they convey there own out comes.
2016-11-24 23:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. note that u said the woman of ur dreams... ur obviously not the man of her dreams because she married ur brother. Quit thinking about urself. That is ur brother's wife dude. Next time ur around her... just say the pledge of allegiance.
2006-07-20 14:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by *Shayla* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to fall back and get a reality check that is your brothers wife your blood stop it already dont cross that line if it was meant to be she would of been with you but she is with him get over it find you someone else that doesnt belong to a family member
2006-07-20 14:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would your brother do if the shoe was on the other foot. Cool down. Think of your brother
2006-07-20 14:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by 38C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look else were or destroy your relationship with your brother, If you ask me I would say blood is thicker and look else where. Donh't tread thin ice.
2006-07-20 14:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,when you find yourself on the Springer show.....remember this is the point in time that got you there.
2006-07-20 14:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by throatp0ker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help b4 i see you on springer
2006-07-20 14:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by eyescrazychris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her she is already married
2006-07-20 14:15:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋