2006-07-20 14:05:46 · 38 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO you're 14, are you in high school yet?
2006-07-20 14:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by embabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, darling, darling.
I've been in that situation three times.
For one, as much as you want to believe he loves you, he has no idea what love is. He JUST hit puberty last year. You also probably don't know what love is.
Five months is nothing.
Do you really want to spend 40 or 50 or 60 years with this person? Probably not. Plus, there may be your knight in shining armor out there somewhere, and it isn't him.
I'm not saying that he's all wrong for you, but you're 14 years old. You have your whole life ahead of you. Marriage is something incredibly sacred, to be cherished and protected. It's also something that takes a lot of effort.
Allow yourself to be a kid right now. Focus on school, and later, your job and your friends. Try to find yourself.
Because right now, I can promise you that you have no idea who you are, who he is, or what the future holds.
You don't want to be tied down by a marriage anytime soon.
He doesn't want to marry you. He just likes you a lot. Find out who he is and who you are. Bring up that subject when you're in college or out of college (even better).
You'll enjoy life a lot more if you do.
Take it from me...I almost ran away to get married when I was 18. I thank God every day that I didn't do that. I would have ended up killing myself.
2006-07-20 14:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Emily C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too young to talk about such! how old is he? some boys get real serious real quick. slow him down and tell him he is confusing you too much with the grown up talk. if you haven't yet had sex this can be a way for him convince you to have sex with the resolve that it is okay cause you eventually are getting married - WRONG! go around with your friends, have a couple more boyfriends and enjoy your childhood while you still have it. you have the majority of your life as an adult ahead of you. Think about it - just 18 maybe 21 years as a kid and the rest of the 65+ years you are alive you are an adult. Please don't get into something you really aren't ready for.
2006-07-20 14:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by MotherNature 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that he is saying it and meaning it, but he doesn't know how hard it will really be to make it through, when your not even out of your teen years, when your out of your teen years and he still feels that same way then hey why not try it then, its too early to be thinking of marriage, live life, have fun, and don't let the buzz die because someone wants to tie you down now! Be free my friend, fly like an eagle, run with a wild pack of wolves, and have fun doing it all! Life is short sometimes but don't forget, it is sometimes long too. So just live it, and forget about regret, because the truth is you will regret about half the thing you do and say in your life time... lol I know I'm weird but at least now I'm happy, since I'm free!...
Good luck and best wishes
2006-07-20 14:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't really want to get married. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Love is more than being "in love" at 14. If you marry him he'll end up beating you every night.
2006-07-20 14:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe....I wish my bf would say that! lol
It would make me feel more secure in our relationship.....(I'm 12)
5 months is a long time.....but not long enough 2 consider marrige. I would definatly look 2 it as a possibility, but don't completely rely on it....it will only make things worse when u do actually break up.
If it's true love, it could last 4eva....
Good Luck! ;-)
2006-07-20 14:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Young Way To Young
2006-07-20 14:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by daddy's gurl 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you should get married your way too young and you have so much more that you should do before you get married. You are still a young and you should take advantage of that.
2006-07-20 14:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Amaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, and a bigger NO...Your 14, who knows you may find someone better for you when your old enough to even be thinking about getting married...Please, please if you listen to nothing else on here, enjoy being a kid now, you cant go backward. Theres plenty of time to find your tue love and this my dear is not.
2006-07-20 14:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married?? You guy sound a little too grown for your own good. Be kids already. When you get older your gonna wish you were young again, lol
2006-07-20 14:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you're 14. You still have the world ahead of you. Wait until you're older to think of that. You still have school and college and other things to experience. Try not to let him pressure you to do something you don't want to do.
2006-07-20 14:14:35 · answer #11 · answered by alyssa_ingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋