My boyfriend can never see me during the week because he has work and then he has to work out to get fit for hockey. I believe him because he loves hockey, but then I find out hes seeing an old friend (thats a girl) on a weekday when hes supposed to be working out. He was the one who told me, but I barely see him and he isn't sure if he can see me on Saturday (he said it to me like he didn't care) and he knows I'm busy all day Sunday and he doesn't seem upset about not seeing me. What should I do or think? Or am I just freaking out?
2006-07-20 13:51:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In some ways you are just freaking out because if he has been honest with you about it, hanging out with the old friend who happens to be a girl..that's one thing, but if he told you he was going to be doing something other than what he was doing,then you have every right to be upset. If it is meant to be, it will be.
2006-07-20 13:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to read his body language. If he seems honest, give him the benefit of the doubt. If you get impatient, find someone else. Hockey more important than you? Cmon
Call Veronica Mars
2006-07-20 13:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by ender724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not freaking out. If he's seeing an old girlfriend and talks to you like he doesn't care, consider yourself free from him and find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.
2006-07-20 14:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you another fellow. Sounds like he is putting all things before you and I personally would not tolerate it. If there is a will.. there is a way if he wanted to see you bad enough. He would MAKE TIME for you. So.. if it were me. I would start looking elsewhere. Good Luck.
2006-07-20 13:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do.. and you have to do this.. is to follow him around.. in your car.. or a rental.. and if you find him cheating you take out a bat or a knife and bang his car up or slash his tires.. then leave him
but thats to risky ofcourse.. all u gotta do is hire a private investigator.. duhh
if u really trusted him.. then u wouldnt worry
2006-07-20 13:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by mariusz360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if dosnt have time for your realationshio and hes seeing his "old Friend" that would be something to worry about just be careful and check up on him sometimes like phone him or something but dont do it too much because it might cause problems
2006-07-20 13:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by LUZMILA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you i dont think this guy deserves anyone like you. it seems like you are trying to be honest with him and devote sometime alone. i think he might be seeing someone else. you shouldnt stress over him i think that you are probably a nice pretty girl who can make a different guy very happy and who will actually listen and shows that he cares about you. hopefully you make the right decision
2006-07-20 13:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by edwin r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is taking advantage of you (at least to a point). He doesn't seem to be hiding anything based on what you say. You just have to decide whether he is worth it or not. Maybe you need not limit yourself to one guy?
2006-07-20 13:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not getting what you need from him... you clearly need to have more contact with a boyfriend. You should tell him what you need and, if he can't adjust his schedule to make you a higher priority, you need to move on.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 13:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE ***NOT*** FREAKIN OUT...IF HE HANGIN WITH A OLD FRIEND AND NOT YOU THEN SUMTHIN IZ GOIN ON... IF HE CANT MAKE TYME FOR U THEN UR TYME IZ NOT TO BE WASTED BY HIM....KEEP IN MIND SUM GUYS DO STUFF DAT FREAKS US OUT JUZ SO DAT WE WIL BREAK UP WITH DEM..SO DEY WONT HAVE TO SAY IT OR FEEL GUILTY
2006-07-20 13:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋