How do i make my gf's parents like me they hate me right now i want to change that any ideas on how to make my gf's parents like me please help!
2006-07-20 13:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by JONATHAN V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just work on being a good boyfriend and respecting your GF. If they don't like you, it is because they think you are a bad match for her. Who knows, maybe they are right. So, treat them with detached respect. Don't suck up! Be calm, quiet, and always be respectful. Answer when spoken to, but do not initiate conversation. Defer to them as you would to your superior at work or school (and I hope that you don't suck up to him or her!). Address them as "Mr." and "Mrs." NEVER talk bad about them to your GF. In fact, find some quality in them that you really admire. And if they come up in conversation with your GF, focus your mind only on that. If you treat her well, they will come around. Otherwise, there really is nothing you can do to make anyone like you. You can't control other people.
2006-07-20 13:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by BlahBlahBlah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be very quiet and polite when you are around the parents.
2) Dress in a manner that the parents would approve of.
3) Treat the gf with great care and respect so she doesn't have anything bad to say about you to the parents.
4) When visiting parents be sure to volunteer to help carry things, set the table, do the dishes, etc.
5) Be a gentleman and mind all you manners for the gf in front of parents. Open doors, pull out chairs, etc.
2006-07-20 20:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your gf and want her parents to like you and trust you then build trust by talking to them, taking them out to dinner. Just be yourself
2006-07-20 20:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Goalie Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant change that believe me Ive tried Ive been with my b/f 8 years and his whole family hates me because of my race I'm not sure your reason is on this but if you truly love her let it go and maybe in time they will except you and good luck
2006-07-20 20:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your gf likes you, why should you worry about how her parents feel?
2006-07-20 20:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by miriam_eesti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and ask them how you could better yourself in their eyes. Commuications is the key to all good relatonships.
Good Luck
2006-07-20 20:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did u do for them to hate u so much?
2006-07-20 20:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask them if they hate you and ask them why. then talk it out, they may just not trust you. build up their trust.
2006-07-20 20:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lucas J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DIDNT TELL US WHY THEY HATE YOU
2006-07-20 20:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..... nope. sry
2006-07-20 20:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋