my parents call me sick and stupid and say that they hate me what should i do?

Answer 1

Talk to a counselor or a friend or family member that you trust. You need to get out. Don't run away, there are bad things in the world that can take you down. Keep your head up, know that your a good person and your parents are the ones with a problem.

Answer 2

First of all your parents should never say things like you said.
Are you a teenager still living at home?

Are you or will you be old enough to join a military service? That is a very good way to get training for a career or job when you get out.

Everything that you would need is furnished for you plus pay.

That's what I did, I joined the Navy because I went through the same thing that you are going through.

Keep your head high, don't dwell on what they say. They are the ones that has the problem, not you.

I'm rooting for you. Never give up.

Answer 3

My parents did the same thing. They are both now dead and I am not sorry, but I was grown when they died and could take care of myself. I don't know how old you are, but success is the best revenge. I got into books a lot, especially books about self improvement. Go on the Internet and type in "how to study" if you need help learning to read. What they are doing is verbal abuse which is worst than physical abuse. Talk to your church pastor or school counselor. If you can live somewhere else do so.

Answer 4

Oh sweetie, first of all don't listen. Don't let their words sink into the deepest of your mind. Erase their comments from your memory. Sometimes parents don't measure their words and the damage they can cause with them. So DON'T LISTEN to their hurtful words. Second, try to understand what they are really trying to say. When humans can't control something, they resort to violence, so try to figure out what it is that your parents are REALLY trying to tell you. What's the problem? Then, if it is your fault, apologize. If it is their fault, try to reason with them. If your parents are close-minded and won't listen, then understand that is the way they are, and don't hate them for it. Our role as children is to love our parents, not to judge them.

Finally, I know it's hard dealing with difficult parents. Their mean actions toward us can be the most painful, but remember that you have a greater love that will never go away, never abandon you, never stop loving you...GOD. Pray to HIM. He knows your situation better than you do because he knows exactly what you AND your parents are thinking. He made you!! And He wants to help you. Look for Him. He is just waiting for you to come to Him, to open up to Him. He's always been there for you.

Answer 5

Go to church! Or talk about it with a pastor or better yet have the pastor to have a meeting with u and your parents! They would be so SHAMED! And if that don't work then everytime they say that to you say "I love you and I'm gonna pray for you! I'm gonna pray for us!" God is the answer to all your problems.

Answer 6

I am so sorry they r calling u that. I was brought up very similiar except we were called worthless and told we would never amount to anything. plz don't believe them. if u want to talk more email me [e-mail]
will be praying for u

Answer 7

I need more info before I can really answer this question. Why are they saying this? Do they say it often? Do they ever tell you the opposite of these (you're smart, we love you, etc.)? Have they always been saying this, or has it started recently?

Answer 8

How old are you?

why do they all you sick?
do you have brothers and sisters?

what kind of arguments do you have to get them to be in that state?
I can't answer honestly unless i know the details,
could you be specific?

Answer 9

go live with a family member and talk to a counselor

Answer 10

y they say that?just go live with some other family member