I am relocating to FL in about a month. I recently got screwed over by my now ex girl. I still have feeling for her because we were together for 2 years but I really do not think she is a good person anymore. I let her know I was moving and she said to call her a week before I take off. She started talking about if things could work out in the future and I told her I do not think they ever will. She acted surprised by this, granted she is already seeing someone else which makes me laugh. I dont get it but anyways what would you guys do call her and let her know or just take off w/o calling?
2006-07-20 13:35:47 · 12 answers · asked by yeeeehaw4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do still have feelings for her but it is so fresh that I know it is just me being clouded sometimes when I think of the good times I want her back but then I think of all the crap shes pulled and then I am like no way.
2006-07-20 13:55:04 · update #1
see if you can score one for the road...if not, chalk it up to experience.
2006-07-20 13:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have said she is not a good person anymore so why would you want to let her know you are leaving? You have already said she is with someone and asked if you guys could get back together and your response was "no." So why all the questions about what to do? In your question you are stating you do not want to be in a relationship with her but your actions are saying something else. It seems as though you still have feelings for this girl and you are allowing these feelings to cloud your better judgment. If she is not a good person and you have no intentions of getting back together because of this why do you need to let her know when you are leaving? You need to sort out your feelings for this girl and come to terms with it; either leave her alone completely or get back together with her. If you do not do that you will always be in these types of situations with her. If she is with another guy and yet asking to get back together with you; she is not serious. Don't let her play you for a fool!
2006-07-20 13:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call her. It sounds like she doesn't want you to feel badly toward her, even though she 'screwed you over'. Maybe she even has twinges of regret. By calling her, you are showing her that you're getting on with your life without her. Who knows, maybe you could still be friends. B
2006-07-20 13:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it was a good relationship for her. Since she was able to find a new boyfriend without having any feelings for you. Just move on with your life and find someone else new.
2006-07-20 13:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget about her, She's your ex for a reason, why should you have to check in with her before you take off- especially if she's already seeing someone else.
2006-07-20 13:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and unemotionally tell her you're going and wish her well and move on into another relationship at the same time that you're moving geographically. Good luck.
2006-07-20 13:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's done. You have been there and done that dance with her before. why put yourself through it again, especially if you are leaving for a fresh start.
Besides, I think it is funny that she thinks that she can control you, or change your mind from moving...Hehehe.
Have a good trip...with out her.
2006-07-20 13:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take off without calling. Best wishes
2006-07-20 13:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her and find a hot mama in Florida.
2006-07-20 13:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take off without calling.
or you can call see if you can get a quickie in get her to think ya ain't leaving... then leave the next morning without a trace :)
2006-07-20 13:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her for a courtesyfuck. then tell her you're not moving. when she gets excited call her a whore and spit in her face. then leave without telling her ****
2006-07-20 13:39:29 · answer #11 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋