Okay, so I like this boy in my first period history class in summer school and I don't know if he notices me but I THINK he likes me but I'm not sure and he talks to a lot of girls, but that's not the point, it's that I want him to notice me but I don't wanna have to go up to him and make it seem like I like him, I think a guy should go up to the girl if he likes her or thinks she likes him.
So I NEED help from all you girls out there-and guys, you'd be great too, how do I get him to notice me, do you think he will EVER come up to me??QUICK there's only FOUR MORE DAYS OF SUMMER SCHOOL and he doesn't go to my regular school!! So PLEASE hurry!!!!
2006-07-20 13:34:52 · 22 answers · asked by Allahu Akbar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I DO know him, and I have a sense that he remembers me too, it was in 7th grade-he was sitting next to me in math class and we talked like we were buds or somethin, now 11th grade comes along and its kinda like I was living in a dream when I met him, and I kinda thought he liked me too. You see, the easiest way to meet a guy or girl is to be in their class and HOPEFULLY sit next to them, but I sit in the back of the class, like he does, but he sits 2 or 3 desks left of me, and it seems so far away I'd never be able to talk to him. Ooh! He waits near the bus stop that I wait at sometimes. I don't know, I'm just fillin you guys in on wut you don't know so that you could give me better answers.
2006-07-20 13:59:46 · update #1
And also, I wore something really hot today, and I think he noticed, but he didn't say anything-oooo!! Why can't he just say something, he's sooooooo cute!!!!
2006-07-20 14:02:05 · update #2
If you wait until he comes up to you, you might be waiting a while and you might never see him again. Even if he talks to a lot of girls, he might be too shy to approach you.
Go up to him, chat, see if you two can hang after classes. See what happens from there. If he's not interested, you'll know because he won't want to hang with you.
2006-07-20 13:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fennylaise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you sit in relation to him?
See if you can catch him coming to or leaving class and flash a smile.
Move about the class and get email addresses from several students (him included) so you can "keep in contact" once the classes are finished.
Sometimes a guy will not make the move because he is worried that the girl does not feel the same way he does, not unlike your situation, and he may be going through this same process as you are now. Just saying "Hey" in the morning does not constitute "making a move" as you are just being friendly. If you are worried, you can ask something school related, maybe about a subject or topic that has come up in class that day or you think will be on the exam. Start there, as it is a common ground area that you both share.
2006-07-20 13:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by The Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with such short time, unless you make a move chances are you're not getting any positive response from him. C'mon even if he started noticing you tomorrow it still wouldnt be enough time for him to ask you out, after all he's never met you. To me it seem s more like just another summer crush, easy the come easy they go. Your only hope is if he believes in love at first sight, then he might do the impossible to see you again. all I can say is tomorrow dress extremely hot, give him a couple of looks using that sexy smile (if you have one), and try looking interested in him, with out totally giving in. If your that desperate the that means desperate times call for desperate actions, therefore atleast this once go up to him and start a conversation, as soon as you do depending on how he reacts, you'll know if its really worth wasting your time.
PS:try finishing summer school instead, worry about boys later, if your good looking or have a real cool personality, many many boys will come to you, with out you even lifting a finger.
2006-07-20 13:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are in Summer School in the first place is probably because you spent too much time staring at boys instead of hitting the books.
You want him to notice you, well, you'll just have to take the chance and go up to him, quit living in the 19th Century (If you have been paying attention in History Class you'll know to what I am referring)
2006-07-20 13:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing you need to know is that most guys are shy...literally... they wont come up to you if they like you only because they dont want to embarass themselves if they say something wrong.. you should get in on his conversations with other girls or anything if hes in a group.... that will get him to notice you.. then after u finish your class go up to him if you and him are alone waitinf for a ride and talk.. literally about anything.. and believe it or not he will get comfortable with you and sooner or later he will ask you out
2006-07-20 13:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by mariusz360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you only have 4 days then you need to just suck it up and approach him. 4 days isn't enough time for you to get him to notice you without taking drastic measures. Just talk to him. Ask him if he wants to keep in touch. Get his emal , AIM, etc, or even phone number. Go for it. You can always start by just emailing him. Or give him your info and see if he contacts you.
You never know if you will ever see him again. If you don't you mayend up regretting it. If your scared, write him a note. Good Luck. Email me and let me know what happened ( thatgirlnyc212x@yahoo.com ) Ciao!
2006-07-20 13:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seing how you dont want to just ask him out i have an idea get a group of your freinds together to go to a movie ask him if he wants to go to the movie then you have 2 options you can ask him to bring a friend but this will make him not as focused on you or you can just ask him to come by himself which might make him think you like him and in your case thats bad.... anyway once you make that choice go to the movies when there sit next to him and hang out with him more than your freinds but still talk to your freinds to take away attention on the fact that you like him... this way he'll get a clue that you like him and he might say somthing to you and after the movie if he dosnt pop the question or ask you to go sowhere ask him to hang out and hopfully he will ask you to be his gf or wat eva if not you might have to do it yourself but by this time he will be conforatable.
There ya go
2006-07-20 14:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his # and talk to him smile at him or just do it go up to him and say whats ur name or something dont freak out it will be embarrassing well just start from there
it will help or just tell one of your friends to talk to him and get his # for you but it should be you because what if your friend takes his # from you then that won't be good so girl chill and just relax don't be stupid trying to get his attention like acting out or anything dress pretty and try some pretty make up on with some nice shoes ok well good luck come back to me and say if it worked ok
2006-07-20 13:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gawd you better like rush before summers all over with. If you like him go up to him and ask him if he'd like to go see a movie or go for a walk or whatever. Pretty simple.
2006-07-20 13:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by jljdc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about leaning over and saying HI. Or do people not talk to each other anymore?
2006-07-20 13:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋