I was really wild when I was younger and had the best g/friends but they never lasted too long.Now I'm getting older(36) I'm much more responsible,thoughtful and maybe a bit boring nowadays cos i'm frightened of ending up where I did when I was younger.Now the girls just aint thereMaybe it's time for more craziness what do you prefer?
2006-07-20 13:30:55 · 17 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think the women you'd attract now will not necessarily be the little sluts from before. More of the same kind, stable, career-oriented sensible women (hopefully also with a secret wild side).
It's just its hard to look for these women, because they've mellowed and are not really as socially aggressive or crazy (just as you are now). But once you do find one, it'll be totally worth it.
Personally, I think its better to be a stable, sensible guy. You know you'd have the wild side in you anyway, but don't advertise it. Let it be a nice surprise. Much like the lady in the boardroom-whore in the bedroom complex in women, it raises your market value when you have this in you as well.
2006-07-20 13:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by nippon_diosa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not try just being you? We all have a little of both in us look at me and my boyf- I thought I was wild and he was stable but while I'm building my career at the moment, he's jetting off on a backpacking trip in a few weeks:-)
We go through phases and would you really want someone who wants you because you're stable and routine. This would only make you feel confined and like you were unable to be a bit wild should you feel like it, basically the kind of situation that ends a relationship.
Be patient and if you're lucky you'll find someone who will accept both sides of you. Let's face it, anything less just won't do.
2006-07-20 13:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always stable and routine..hit college and became a little more wild but then went right back to the good old stable , routine me when I married.
2006-07-20 13:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like stable and routine. I am too old to play games.
2006-07-20 13:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both- you need to be stable, but you have to let loose sometimes to- not to crazy, but just a little bit. You'll find the right girl when you least expect it.
2006-07-20 13:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like both, Wild and carefree when we go out and have fun.
Stable and routine on the serious things in lif, bills, family..etc....
2006-07-20 13:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stable and routine, I guess I'm boring too.
2006-07-20 13:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brooke 32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like wild and carefree, but then again im only 13. you can try being wild and carefree in a responsible way though. just be yourself though.
2006-07-20 13:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stable & routine please.... throw in a little wildness when we're alone!
Carefree?? Nah - not for me, I'm 38.... I like to know the guy I'm dating can pay his own bills & will be around for awhile.
2006-07-20 13:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by bigbadwolfe_2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stable and routine, but ok to have a bit of craziness from time to time!!
2006-07-20 16:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋