I have a new Italian boyfriend and i really like him but he's seems to be a little too obsessive and really agressive. Does it have to do with Italian culture or does he have a seriouos problem?
2006-07-20 13:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by babyvb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im Italian and grew up around ALL kinds of Italians... the good and the BAD.. (and I mean BAD)...
The loud, obnoxious kind tend to be "connected" or family of "connected" individuals who like to think they are powerful and have control over things. It's an ego problem really.
I learned to deal with it when my friends or family pulled it... and I grew up trying to avoid it in myself. I think you need to tell him to grow up is all. But yes, the Italian culture is a huge part of that
2006-07-20 13:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! I recently broke up with some one for being obsessive and aggressive. This is not going to get better, the worst part is yet to come. I had to make a decision on weather or not I wanted to be alive and single or dead, or abused. I choose to live and reeemain single. Read my last two quest. it may help you.
It has nothing to do with culture. My guy was a professional black male.
2006-07-20 13:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not italian culture and its because hes an italian and hes proud to b 1
2006-07-20 13:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
him being italian doesn't have anything to do with it. anyone can be too obsessive and really agressive. my boyfriend is italian and hes one of the gentlest people i know.
2006-07-20 13:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ix3Mangos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be a mistake to lay the blame for his aggression at the door of his cultural background. People are as they choose to be. I would think seriously about just how much you like this guy. B
2006-07-20 13:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ayy ohh, oh ayy... i'm Italian, and I am not either of those things. maybe it has to do with his own personal past. bet you find he's just another man..lol
2006-07-20 13:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by fordman14437a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋